to love or to be loved, which one is more happiness?

to love or to be loved - the picture show happiness, but what is the real happiness?
to love or to be loved, that is a real question.
China
May 12, 2007 10:02pm CST
sometimes i think that to love is more happiness,or to be loved is more happiness.why does to love and to be love is hard to choose? will you want to choose the girl who love you more than you love her, or choose the girl who you love more than she love you? what is your opinion? thank you very much.
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10 responses
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
13 May 07
It should be both...to love and be loved that one would truly find genuine happiness in life to see that both will worked out fine.
• China
13 May 07
thank you for replying. but sometimes the love is unfair. thank you very much.
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
14 May 07
It's only unfair when selfishness in a relationship takes over...
• China
14 May 07
thank you for replying again. maybe you are right. thank you very much.
• Niger
13 May 07
everybody will like that the second situation happen to him or her,as in love relationship there's always a lover and somebody who's been loved.
• China
14 May 07
thank you for replying. are you sure everybody just would like to be loved? thank you very much.
@shinjiao (1464)
• China
13 May 07
Love is bitter-sweet and love is painful.Personally I think both to love or to be loved is painful.:)If I love someone and he has no special feeling to me,that's a great strike for me;If someone love me but I don't want to accept him,that's a great strike for him.Anyway,I'm glad if someone loves me but that's another thing to accept him or refuse him.Mmmmm,sometimes it's really hard to make a desicion.:)
• China
14 May 07
thank you for replying. hehe. love is unpredictable. thank you very much.
@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
13 May 07
I think that you should have both. You should have the cabapility to give love to all, not just your lover. In the same time you should have the personality and the good behaveour, to be loved. one way love has no meaning, and happiness has been acheaved by giving love and getting people love you. love and to be loved are the two wings of happiness.
• China
14 May 07
thank you for replying. that is a good idea. love and to be loved are the two wings of happiness. thank you very muvh.
• China
13 May 07
In my opinion,both of them bring us happiness.I believe in the proverb,says "no pains,no gains."If you don't love people,then you won't get their love.Don't you think so?
• China
14 May 07
thank you for replying. hehe, love is never to be controled. thank you very muche
@stvasile (7316)
• Romania
13 May 07
It's a tough choice... Being loved by someone may have no effect on you if that person doesn't share that love with you. Loving someone is good for you even if the other person doesn't know you love them... As far as I'm concerned, I prefer being with a girl that loves me than being with someone that I love desperately but that doesn't love me a bit...
• China
13 May 07
thank you for replying. i know what you mean. in the right time meet wrong someone. thank you very much.
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@carryli (876)
• China
13 May 07
Once,i aks the same question to a boy who said he loves me.The boy's answer is he will choose the girl which he loves her,he considers that he can give his lover to happy is his most happy,he just wants his patner fells happy,and anonthing is unimportant.
• China
13 May 07
thank you for replying. i want to know whether the love is just happy? or make the other happy? thank you very much.
• China
13 May 07
Sometimes i feel that i love my BF more than he does and really, it hurts.Surely we can't measure love by quantity,but no one wants his love without response. I feel my BF is more happy than me for i'm willing to give whatever i have even though i know that spoils him.Friends say i'm such a fool...Yes,i am blind,all for love. Now,you see,if you can choose,choose the one who loves you more.
• China
13 May 07
thank you for replying. to love or to be loved ,that is a real question.love is selfish. thank you very much.
• Philippines
13 May 07
i think you may feel the happiness is both of you love each other.. i believe that in order to have a happy relationship is to love each other.. to love and to be love is unfair happiness,, because you will not feel the happiness if only one who loves truly.
• China
13 May 07
thank you for replying. i know what you mean.but some people said:"love is selfish,unfair." what do you think of it? thank you very much.
@magica (3710)
• Bulgaria
13 May 07
Of course, the shared love is the best variant, but when this is not possible- it`s better to be loved.May be it sounds a bit little selfish.
• China
13 May 07
thank you for replying. sharing love with each other is great, but it is hard to control the love which equal to each other. thank you very much.