to love or to be loved, which one is more happiness?

It should be both...to love and be loved that one would truly find genuine happiness in life to see that both will worked out fine.

everybody will like that the second situation happen to him or her,as in love relationship there's always a lover and somebody who's been loved.

It's a tough choice... Being loved by someone may have no effect on you if that person doesn't share that love with you. Loving someone is good for you even if the other person doesn't know you love them... As far as I'm concerned, I prefer being with a girl that loves me than being with someone that I love desperately but that doesn't love me a bit...

I think that you should have both. You should have the cabapility to give love to all, not just your lover. In the same time you should have the personality and the good behaveour, to be loved. one way love has no meaning, and happiness has been acheaved by giving love and getting people love you. love and to be loved are the two wings of happiness.

In my opinion,both of them bring us happiness.I believe in the proverb,says "no pains,no gains."If you don't love people,then you won't get their love.Don't you think so?

Love is bitter-sweet and love is painful.Personally I think both to love or to be loved is painful.:)If I love someone and he has no special feeling to me,that's a great strike for me;If someone love me but I don't want to accept him,that's a great strike for him.Anyway,I'm glad if someone loves me but that's another thing to accept him or refuse him.Mmmmm,sometimes it's really hard to make a desicion.:)

Of course, the shared love is the best variant, but when this is not possible- it`s better to be loved.May be it sounds a bit little selfish.

Once,i aks the same question to a boy who said he loves me.The boy's answer is he will choose the girl which he loves her,he considers that he can give his lover to happy is his most happy,he just wants his patner fells happy,and anonthing is unimportant.

i think you may feel the happiness is both of you love each other.. i believe that in order to have a happy relationship is to love each other.. to love and to be love is unfair happiness,, because you will not feel the happiness if only one who loves truly.

Sometimes i feel that i love my BF more than he does and really, it hurts.Surely we can't measure love by quantity,but no one wants his love without response. I feel my BF is more happy than me for i'm willing to give whatever i have even though i know that spoils him.Friends say i'm such a fool...Yes,i am blind,all for love. Now,you see,if you can choose,choose the one who loves you more.