How would you feel if you saw your girlfriend making out with your best pal?
By Adamdog
@Adamdog (254)
United States
May 13, 2007 12:35pm CST
Had it happen to me once. The feeling was not something I want to mention here. It isn't the best thing in the world, believe me. I just stood there mouth wideopen not sure what to do. My heart had been broken by the girl I loved. But as I always say, lifes goes on, I have a new girlfriend and I've forgiven my best pal but I just can't look him in the eyes anymore. It isn't the same. I went through a hard time but I guess that is that. Give your opinions.
Cheers!
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4 responses
@shak143 (1280)
• India
13 May 07
It's difficult when some of ours betrayed whom we love and trusted most.But it happens some times.What you have done is correct by controling yourself and let them for themselfs and got a new friend.Some will lost there temper and do some wrong things which is creates a lot of problems.
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@nonelemental (261)
• Brazil
13 May 07
oh , its bad :/
with me never happen
my girlfriend is my first girlfriend, and i'm the first boyfriend of her
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@Adamdog (254)
• United States
13 May 07
Well, the girls go for the more manly, more attractive person. I guess I wasn't the one she hoped me to be and that is the reason she made such a decision. It was hard to understand why my pal would do that but I guess jealousy can be a motivator. I am forgiving and I managed to forgive him in time. Thanks for your comment!
@smacksman (6053)
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13 May 07
That is proof that you can love more than one person. Some people say you can't but I believe you can.
I tend to use the word 'love' very carefully and tend to use the word attraction or friend most of the time. Try it and see how it works for you.
When your attraction for a girl is later not returned by her attraction for you then it doesn't seem so bad as saying 'love spurned'. And her attraction for your friend may be just as fleeting.
Nobody likes to be dumped. It hurts. But it heals with time.
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@Adamdog (254)
• United States
13 May 07
I totally agree with you. I was much younger then, much more naive and I guess I couldn't understand the word Love. I had a vague idea and so did she. I took it as a sign and I learned from my mistakes, right now I guess I am happy with my girl, I try not to think of the past. Thanks for your comment!
Best wishes :)
