will you go back to your ex or not?

@rojane (500)
Philippines
May 14, 2007 10:56pm CST
old flames: to rekindle or not to rekindle? most of us have been an ex-bf or gf to someone. one question: are you the type who rekindles old flames, you know, goes back to your ex.....or are you the type who doesn't go or even look back and for you, what's closed is closed?
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bindishah
@bindishah (2062)
• India
15 May 07
I wont say i dont look back..coz i do on occasions and wonder what if. But I think i would not want to go back to my ex. there was a reason in the first place why we broke up and if those issues havent been solved then I wouldnt think about it.
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rojane
@rojane (500)
• Philippines
16 May 07
i think you're right. we sometimes do look back and remember old times but that's just how far it goes for me. and i agree with you that issues should be resolved first, that is, if you still want to go back to your ex. unresolved issues will just worsen the situation and make matters worse on your second time around.
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bindishah
@bindishah (2062)
• India
17 May 07
Thank you for the best response.
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xiqechill
@xiqechill (238)
• Indonesia
17 May 07
no way..i'm not a bouncing ball. but of course if it's really worth it to be back, i'll think of it. :D
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rojane
@rojane (500)
• Philippines
18 May 07
hahaha. i feel yah! we can never really tell. :)
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teddy
@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
16 May 07
Everyone deserve a second chance. Sometimes we have to give she or he second chance, maybe after that, she or he will realize their mistakes. For me, it depends on how my partner ask for the second chance. Then, I will think whether to accept or not to accept her.
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rojane
@rojane (500)
• Philippines
16 May 07
yeah but i guess there are times that there are no second chances. i would just like to share to you a quote on this: "mistakes make you think. they make you realize what you have, what you've lost, & what you've taken for granted. they make you realize that sometimes there are no next times, no time-outs, & no second chances..." i guess that just reminds us not to take things for granted.
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napatu
@jogie_bien (1103)
• Philippines
15 May 07
for me, i never look back at my ex, for me all is past and no need to look back of it.because i will forget him n my mind.
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rojane
@rojane (500)
• Philippines
16 May 07
it's not really that we forget the person. maybe we just had learned to unlove them and to move on with our lives....even without them. it's only hard at first but eventually, you'll get used to it, ryt?
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