What do you prefer? being single or being married with children?
@simple_butterfly (478)
Philippines
May 16, 2007 2:17am CST
When I was in my college years...I was so afraid to get married..I don't know what my life would be after that..do I know how to bear a child???...well, for me now being married and having a child of my own makes me complete...for you?? what do you want?
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
16 May 07
Marriage and children are not synonymous. I'm getting married next year, but I am never ever having children. I can't stand the little buggers.
@simple_butterfly (478)
• Philippines
16 May 07
Oh..is that so? Are you happy with that then? I'm just curios what will happen to your married life without having any children...
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
16 May 07
What do you mean "what will happen" to my life? Children aren't the definition of life. At least not mine, maybe yours, though.
@simple_butterfly (478)
• Philippines
17 May 07
Dont' get me wrong. I understand and I respect your opinion though I believe that..what will complete a woman is when she bears a child. When she called it her own. Flesh of her flesh...bones of her bones. Maybe for me I can't really love the child not on my own but I can take care of her/him. If you don't want any child what will you take care of or love until you grow old?
@cheryl2783 (229)
• United States
16 May 07
Having a husband and child has changed my whole life. The only thing I lost were my friends. We used to do alot of partying. Weekends, weekdays, lunchbreak, you name it. Since my marriage, I haven't thought twice about going out. In a way, I think they both saved me, from the old me.
@simple_butterfly (478)
• Philippines
17 May 07
Yeah..you're right. For me, I'm happy now having a family and child of my own. I have still friends but not so close now at least they are there when I needed them.
