Spouse brings another partner to bedroom?

It depends on who that other partner is, and if I get to play too? Honestly if I had a partner who did such things without consulting me, they wouldn't be my partner any longer. I don't abide cheaters. However, I have been in non-monogamous relationships and enjoyed them, so I wouldn't immediately deny such a request without considering it. In the specific scenario you stated, obviously prior permission was not granted. So I would not be silent, and I would definitely confront my spouse... most likely leading to divorce.

Personally I think I would kill them both! Or at least beat the crap out of them where they would need medical attention then seek divorce! I wouldn't stand for anything of those sorts happening here!!

Well neither my husband nor myself would bring a lover into our home..becuase its not just OUR home but its my childrens home as well....That being said, if he were to hook up with someone outside the home I'd be fine with it so long as he told me first and if she's cute I'd want in on it LOL

i would kick him out right that min... never to come back..

I divorced my husband for cheating on me. I am glad he didn't try to bring a woman home.I'm not real sure what I would of done.

hi there , bart! oops, i meant coolgeth. :) i really like your avatar. lolz. :) anyway, hmm, if this happened to me, i would instantly divorce him!! there is no use in staying with someone whom i cant really trust. and since he was caught philandering, that implies that he isnt happy with me anymore, so why should i bother? :P

My.spouse.wouldn't.live.through.doing.such.a.stupid.rude.thing!.. Neither.would.the.girl!(sorry.for.all.the.dots.my.granddaughter. destroyed.my.computer.with.soda.pop..The.space.key.doesn't.work).

.. it is very hurting indeed.. if I am in that situation, I would be silent, pack my things and my kids and LEAVE HIM ALL ALONE in the house.

another partner in bed? inside my house? it is a NO NO for him. in the first place, my husband knows the rules in bringing 'friends' inside the house. if the partner is someone he is involved romantically... i'd talk to them in a normal manner to get out of my house while i can still cover them for my kids. after they leave, i'd pack the things of my husband and let him stay out of our house. i will not live with a philandering husband, the more that i will not tolerate what he is doing.

That kind of a behaviour defenitely deserves a divorce.