Spouse brings another partner to bedroom?

@Coolgeth (1215)
India
June 4, 2007 7:23pm CST
You and your kids where in the main hall and your spouse brings another partner to your bedroom. What will you do? Will yuo cry? will you shout? will you beat? will you divorce him? or will you remain silent?
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@lecanis (16664)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
5 Jun 07
It depends on who that other partner is, and if I get to play too? Honestly if I had a partner who did such things without consulting me, they wouldn't be my partner any longer. I don't abide cheaters. However, I have been in non-monogamous relationships and enjoyed them, so I wouldn't immediately deny such a request without considering it. In the specific scenario you stated, obviously prior permission was not granted. So I would not be silent, and I would definitely confront my spouse... most likely leading to divorce.
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@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
5 Jun 07
If i get to play too? good question..Will you enjoy if that so?
@lecanis (16664)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
5 Jun 07
If he/she is cute and someone I like, sure. =p I can think of a couple people I wouldn't mind my hubby bringing home!
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@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
5 Jun 07
Hope soon your husband bring them home.:) LOL.
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• United States
5 Jun 07
Personally I think I would kill them both! Or at least beat the crap out of them where they would need medical attention then seek divorce! I wouldn't stand for anything of those sorts happening here!!
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
haha! you are so right! i think i could kill them both first, before i divorce him! ;0 lolz. :)
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@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
5 Jun 07
Ha..Ha..Ha..I wish to do the same if my spouse does..
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@judyt00 (3504)
• Canada
6 Jun 07
Just.wait.til.he.falls.asleep.afterwards!.Then.do.it!
• India
7 Jun 07
i would kick him out right that min... never to come back..
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@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
7 Jun 07
Thanks for your response..
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@Ravenladyj (22936)
• United States
5 Jun 07
Well neither my husband nor myself would bring a lover into our home..becuase its not just OUR home but its my childrens home as well....That being said, if he were to hook up with someone outside the home I'd be fine with it so long as he told me first and if she's cute I'd want in on it LOL
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@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
5 Jun 07
hope you will enjoy with a cute one soon..Lol
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
5 Jun 07
I divorced my husband for cheating on me. I am glad he didn't try to bring a woman home.I'm not real sure what I would of done.
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@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
5 Jun 07
Hmmm...Thanks for your response..
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@jlara_gtr34 (3492)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
hi there , bart! oops, i meant coolgeth. :) i really like your avatar. lolz. :) anyway, hmm, if this happened to me, i would instantly divorce him!! there is no use in staying with someone whom i cant really trust. and since he was caught philandering, that implies that he isnt happy with me anymore, so why should i bother? :P
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@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
5 Jun 07
Thanks for your complement and response. Hope your husband wont do that..LOLz
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• Philippines
5 Jun 07
another partner in bed? inside my house? it is a NO NO for him. in the first place, my husband knows the rules in bringing 'friends' inside the house. if the partner is someone he is involved romantically... i'd talk to them in a normal manner to get out of my house while i can still cover them for my kids. after they leave, i'd pack the things of my husband and let him stay out of our house. i will not live with a philandering husband, the more that i will not tolerate what he is doing.
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@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
5 Jun 07
yes/...thats should be done..Thanks for your response: )
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@aj2006 (1536)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
.. it is very hurting indeed.. if I am in that situation, I would be silent, pack my things and my kids and LEAVE HIM ALL ALONE in the house.
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• Philippines
5 Jun 07
I would surely react and cry "foul". This is the worst thing a partner could do to me. He take the woman elsewhere but he will take her to our own home where our kids are, they would definitely get a bad remembrance from me. Its something I will never ever tolerate. He could have shouted at me and I will still try to understand. He may have cheated but was sorry and maybe I will understand. But once he brings another woman inside our bedroom, it will be the end of it all.
@judyt00 (3504)
• Canada
5 Jun 07
My.spouse.wouldn't.live.through.doing.such.a.stupid.rude.thing!.. Neither.would.the.girl!(sorry.for.all.the.dots.my.granddaughter. destroyed.my.computer.with.soda.pop..The.space.key.doesn't.work).
@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
5 Jun 07
Thats cool...Thanks for your response with dots:)
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@dentidle (293)
• Switzerland
14 Jun 07
That kind of a behaviour defenitely deserves a divorce.