Does your partner encourage you to look at other girls or guys?

@1qazxsw2 (512)
Singapore
June 8, 2007 7:50am CST
You know what..my partner actually encourages me..if there is a pretty and sexy girl walking by , she will tell me and say .."Hey..Look!There is a sexy lady...." What do you think...she encouraging me or testing me? How about you..?
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@gr8life (6252)
• Malaysia
8 Jun 07
I don't encourage my husband but I always tease him about it. Whenever I see pretty, attractive and sexy girl walks by, I will tell him "See..see...see... so pretty, so sexy lady huh? You better look at her now because she is showing some kind of interest in you!" And he always scold me for doing that. But, he WILL look! We always make it as a joke, just for fun. But whenever a handsome, sexy man walks by, my husband will stare at me and warn me, "You better don't look at strangers. You should know your status and don't do that in front of our son!" Oh, wow!
@1qazxsw2 (512)
• Singapore
9 Jun 07
Men are a very jealous species....indeed.
• United States
8 Jun 07
I think she is testing you. She's wanting to see/hear your reaction, which for her, will let her know how you feel about her. This is rather immature on her part, and tells me she has insecurity issues. And you are kind of damned if you do and damned if you don't - if you look at a woman she's pointed out and say, "You're right, she is very sexy," your partner will probably be angry. But, if you look at a woman who you think is indeed very sexy, but you lie to your partner about that, your partner's going to feel better, indeed, but it's based on a lie. You need to have a serious talk with her and ask her why she is doing this. Sure, she may be encouraging you and perhaps she is trying to express to you a fantasy she has or something along those lines. A calm, serious talk to get to the bottom of this will work wonders, I'm sure. Good luck.
@1qazxsw2 (512)
• Singapore
8 Jun 07
Perhaps she is testing me but she didn't seem to be angry or jealous ...I never do the other way by asking her to look at guys though... I rather she has some kind of fantasy..yah. I guess if she does that again..I make sure to ask her if she is serious or test..mebbe she is just have some inferiority complex..