What do you think is the primary reason for someone to avoid another person?

Philippines
June 16, 2007 5:31am CST
Well, I have this classmate before who I find friendly but silent at times. I notice after, because we are not classmates anymore today, this classmate of mine is already evading me. Before, I constantly joke around at him that I like him. Of course, at that time I didn't take it seriously but after, I grew to like him. I notice though that he stares at me when I'm not looking but when we see each other, he evades me.? Why is that so? How about you what's your reason for evading or avoiding a person?
4 responses
@donsky14 (5961)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
well, maybe he took the whole "you like him" joke thing seriously, so he started avoiding you? Try talking to him and ask him why his avoiding you.. Personally, I avoid a person when I can't stand the persons attitude..or if I'm not comfortable with him or her.
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• Philippines
16 Jun 07
I don't know with him if he really took it seriously but it was a joke and I said sorry to him before about it for joking him always. Well, If he's not comfortable then I'm not comfortable with him too!
@donsky14 (5961)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
uhm, did you try to talk to him again?
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• Philippines
17 Jun 07
I haven't talked to him yet anyway thanks for the question. Well, I decided not to talk so much about it anymore
@alpine_007 (1476)
• Pakistan
16 Jun 07
i think that the primary reason for this is that he gets bored or frustrated because of joking on him or doing which doesn't likes.
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• Philippines
17 Jun 07
yes maybe you're right but then I said sorry already
• India
16 Jun 07
Hello Lonely, You are again going to fall in love with someone. This is not fail for you. I am reading your topics continuously here at mylot. I find that you try to leave one bf but other one is in que. You should leave such things for some time and get freshed. Mentally you are disturb this time. So please leave this type of friendship. Do not take care even about those who is taking care about you. He will automatically go his own way. May be he is trying to flirt you. This will again push you in trouble in future. So avoid such boys. Live a happy life with boyfriend. It is easy, you need positive thinking only.
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
thank you for continuously reading my post. Actually, I don't understand what you mean by leaving one bf or what since I don't have any. I don't intend too to become his gf. He is not really good.
@tonixxx (358)
16 Jun 07
Generally nerves. It sounds as though there may be some mutual evation flirtation going on. Try cornering him and having a normal conversation, he may explain why he no longer talks to you if you ask him straight out.
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• Philippines
16 Jun 07
maybe because we are not classmates anymore? well, thanks though