smacking children? is it wrong
By axter69
@axter69 (379)
June 18, 2007 6:37am CST
I am a big beliver in discipline but I do not feel comfortabul in striking my kids. you some times see when your out, a child get a real crack and I just think the size of me to the size of a kid it can't be good can it. but at times I do feel like I am running out of options by way of disciplaine. afetr all there is only so many times you can send a kid to there room isn't there?
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@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
18 Jun 07
In some cases spanking is appropriate when he really does not care that you sent him to his room (by the way, isn't his toys there and his computer if he has one? If he has, take it out of his room plus his Tv if he has one, and anything he can have fun with). I do not mean by whipping the living daylights out of the child, I mean a good slap on the rear end with your bare hand or a few times more if he does not heed the warning. You should tell him what he is being punished for. For toddlers and babies, you just slap their hand when they are about to grab or do something and say, "No!" in as firm a voice as you can. There is no need to use the back of the hairbrush, a belt or whatever unless the child is in or near his teens and by then they suffer more by denying them privileges, or telling them they cannot go out with their friends so using an instrument really isn't necessary.
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@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
18 Jun 07
I think hitting a child is 100% wrong. I would never hit my child, no matter what the circumstances. There are so many better things you could do for discipline, such as taking away their favorite toy or making them sit down or not allowing them to do something they were looking forward to. No matter what, I would never resort to hitting my child, and I look down on any parent that does. They are just weak as parents, in my opinion.
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