i miss him

if u still love him, then why did u broke up with him? is it because ur a single mom? what if he loves u and the child? isn't it great that eventhough u have a child, he did accept u. i have the same situation but the bad thing is, i never experienced what his love will be. i chose to end it before it started and now, i'm regretting it but that was my choice. i stood with it even if it hurts me. i seldom see him so the hurt lessens compared to u. and i know he's dating... with many girls in fact.. he keeps on changing them as if he is just changing his clothes.. and i said to myself, it's better if i did not pursue what i feel for him because i might end up hurting... :) but i know it's bullshit... all i can say is, if u still love him, then talk to him. gie urself a chance to express how u feel. if he says that he doesn't bear the same feelings that u have then move on even if it hurts... but if he says that he too feels the same then lucky for you... accept his love and your love... i know it's goin to be hard... from here on, all i can say to you is "good luck" and "GOD Bless you!"

At the time that the relationship ended there had to be some very good reasons for this. Think back on that. Now take a moment to consider, are you really missing him or missing being with someone, is it him or are you just lonely now and crave a companion? Now that it has been a year are you just a little bit jealous of seeing him with another woman because you haven't moved on? I don't mean that in any catty way, I'm just asking you to think a little bit about the situation because often times when we break up with someone we forget why we did so and then after time passes we get lonely and miss "them". Really it isn't them we are missing because we tend to look back on the past with rose coloured glasses if you no what I mean.

you could find out what his feelings are. It's possible that he wants to give you a second chance. That would be great, wouldn't it? I think i'd want to find out how he feels about you. That way if he wants a second chance great, and if he doesn't at least you will have that for sure and will be easier for you to move on and forget him slowly. But if you always maintain that doubt inside it'll be really hard for you to forget him and ease that pain that you're feeling.

how do you know he does not love you any more?I think you should clarify if he still loves you.if he does not love you really,you should just forget him.do not diturb yourself for this.

Women cant forget their love if she really love him.The more they want to forget the more they feel and love them.If again he start dating with you I feel there is no problem because you still love him which you cannot forget.So be his friend again and tell him what is there in your mind.

Tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same. Just because you're a single mom doesn't mean your a bad person.

If you left him why are you having these feelings? If you are trying to get over him wouldn't it be better if you did not see him. You know out of site out of mind. I think maybe you are consintrating too much on the man and not thinking about what you have. You have a life and a child. It is hard to be a single mom but I am sure you will do fine. A child needs a lot of time and attention which should help you get him off your mind at least for a little bit. I am a fond believer that there is someone out there for everyone. I also say that all really good relationships start as friends. Once you are very good friends than maybe there can be more. Stop calling yourself dumb for starters. When you and he were together it was not ment to be. It doesn't matter whos fault it was it is over and you are still alive and making your way in this world. Be proud of yourself in all that you do. Ok enough of the lecture. Good luck.

Have you considered talking to this guy about how you feel about him?

Thank you for sharing us your feelings.The point is you have to figure out whether he still loves you.If the answer is 'yes',then you have nothing to worry about,or you just walk away.I think there are a lot of things to do in one's life.Women tend to be more emotional,but we have to save ourselves.Start to date new people,soon you will find a more suitable one for you.