Love or Like?
By gr8life
@gr8life (6251)
Malaysia
July 1, 2007 1:51pm CST
How do you differentiate between these feelings? Sometimes, you think that you love someone but in fact you just like him/her with no love feeling getting involved. At one time, you feel like you love someone that you can't live without him/her but in fact when you need to live separately, you can live without him actually! Does it mean if you like someone, you will love him/her too? Do share your thoughts!
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5 responses
@Dasari100 (3791)
• Anantapur, India
8 Apr 09
I know that difference between like and love so both are looks similar but when you see and observe you can find so many answers so i can say that like is only certain limit but love is unlimited forever.
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
8 Apr 09
Hello Dasari100,
Sometimes we feel that we love someone but it is just the feeling of afraid to be alone, and when you need a company, you feel like you can't live without that person. In fact, it is more to like than love. For me, I only love people around me - my friends and family but the one that I love the most - of course my husband.
@Dasari100 (3791)
• Anantapur, India
8 Apr 09
First you need to understand attraction and dis attraction nature of law so when you love any personal Unconditional love then that is correct love so it should not be any condition between the partners so that the love is pure.
@bunnybon7 (50970)
• Holiday, Florida
20 Apr 09
oh many times i thought i loved somebody. it turned out i just didnt like being alone. with 4 husbands it turned into hate
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@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
21 Apr 09
Hello bunnybon7,
Quite often it happened to me before. I thought I was in love but the truth is, I was just afraid of being alone all over again. But think of it now, I think I only love two men in my life - my ex and now definitely is my husband. Lucky I didn't do wrong this time.
@nill_07 (1104)
• Bangladesh
12 Jul 07
So nice your discussion & thanks for starting such a nice discussion..
Actually it is relative.. infact most of the things in this world are relative..
Sometimes such feelings may come one's mond that one will be unable to live without others but I think it is a instant feelings. And most the time it is seen that the person who has said that he/she will be unable to live without others.. those persons live so comfortly without the previous person and it may be that those person may forgot the previous comment.
I don't belive that life is specially for a specific person. Life is so great & love is also so great but life has a great meaning even except love with human.
I had to say a lot more but this is a annonoying palce to reponse for such a discussion.
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
16 Jul 07
Hello nill_07,
Thank you for your response. I fully understand your statement. But believe me, life will be more meaningful and great when you could find your true LOVE. Of course there are many out there that you like to be with, but it is totally different situation when you found your loved one. Life starts to begin more meaningful to you and that is when you think that you are on top of the world!
@casper_the_ghost (238)
•
1 Jul 07
i guess that like is someone you will hang around...but not have a relationship with...
love is when you adore them and want to have a relationship with them, but some people us this to much and say they love all their friends ;/
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@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
1 Jul 07
Hello casper_the_ghost,
First, I like your name *smile* It is long but don't-know-why it sounds so cute.
Well, you might be right. To like someone is to hang around with that person but not to have a relationship with him/her. But, some people do get into a serious relationship after that *smile*
For me, to love someone is a special feeling that you can't tell all the people around you. Only one and only person among them will get to hear you say this *wink*
@rocketsky (1013)
• China
15 Apr 09
love and live sometimes got mixed up together .
you really dont know what is love or what is like .
you like someone ,it doent mean you love him or her ,really complex question to answer
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