Single, Heart Broken, alone, but yet surviving...
By saierchok
@saierchok (1294)
United States
July 2, 2007 1:10pm CST
a relation that have lasted 4 years ended ... my love has gone.. my girl is gone.. she's for someone else now.. she said she couldn't stand infront of her family's desire.. and she is planing to get married to a Saudian rich guy:(( my heart is broken.. I'm feeling lonely.. and I've been so sad.. some times I felt that it was a dream.. then I'm mixed what's the dream?? that we broke up or that we were ever together??:( I'm alone..
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4 responses
@Jessem (372)
• Mauritius
2 Jul 07
Im feeling soory for you buddy koz i know when one's dream get shattered hoe he feel but you have to be strong and courageous to acknowledge this fact that it all form part of life. No one can win against destiny when it has decided otherwise for you. Have patience im sure that time will gradually heal your grief. Dont weep over spilt milk as im certain you will get a better girl in your life. Forget about the girl as if she really loved you she would not have left you in this state.
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
2 Jul 07
thank you so much for these words..
and you are absolutely right.. she wouldn't have chosen another if she was really in love with me... as she claims...
I'm definately going to move on with my life..
and find me another one...
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@liyan97 (2127)
• Northern Mariana Islands
2 Jul 07
I am sorry to hear that you are going through heartache! I have been through it three times before and although it may seem like your life has ended, the truth it is just beginning!
You have to be strong and have faith! If she left you for another guy then she wasn’t meant for you to begin with! You are a wonderful person and if she choose not to see it then you are better off alone!
You will find the one who is meant for you, I won’t say that you won’t be heartbroken again, but if you are willing to let go of the heartache and open yourself up, I am pretty sure that there is someone out there ready and willing to get to know you!
You are not alone! You have us Mylot members here to get you through this if you are open to our support…I wish you happiness my friend…..

@saierchok (1294)
• United States
3 Jul 07
thank you so much for your touching words.. I'm definately going to move on.. and just now I'll change this sad avatar of mine.. and out a nice happy one :)
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@saierchok (1294)
• United States
2 Jul 07
I'm feeling a little better.. we broke up a week ago.. and it's better now..
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@jeanne94668 (478)
• Philippines
9 Jul 07
i am sorry to hear about you and your girl. and as i understand you feel better now. i know 4 years is a long time and you've shared a lot also. all i can say is that you will find another girl that is right for you. she might not be your destined girl in life. once you've met the right one you'll know it right away. for your love strikes when you're unguarded. make yourself busy and once you feel and think you're ready start going out with friends at first. then meet new girls. that way, you'll forget about the past.
good luck!!!
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
9 Jul 07
thank you so much, I wish you too never get cheated or left alone as long as you live!






