Immorality
By jhoannapena
@jhoannapena (342)
Philippines
July 11, 2007 12:16am CST
Deceit is the best way to hurt the people you love.
A good friend came to me last night crying her eyes out because she discovered that her husband was cheating on her. The other woman is a college student, young, pretty and half the age of her husband.
My friend has been faithful to her husband in the 15 years that they have been married. She has sacrificed her career, her personal interests to be a homemaker to her husband and 2 children and in return to her support and sacrifice her husband cheats her wife by having an affair to a much younger woman.
My question to all men out there, what drives you to throw away a good life in exchange for something you don't even know will ever work?
Are all men by nature cheaters? Do men have any idea how painful their actions are to your families?
2 responses
@vonn1378 (706)
• Philippines
11 Jul 07
Even if your question is only for men I would still response to your post. In my point view and maybe a lot would agree with me that cheating is not about what gender we are. I know some people of both gender that are cheating with the wife or husbands.
Being cheated will definitely hurt the person involved. And we also don't really know why the person cheat their partners. I think when somebody cheated it is not the only fault of one person. I would say both not unless the partner is perfect and still been cheated.
But whatever the reason is.. it's still cheating and it hurt so bad, very bad. And it can make or break a person if being cheated by their partner.
@jhoannapena (342)
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
Thank you for responding. I stand corrected, in my earlier response. I apologize to all men that I had offended because being cheated doesn't happen to just women it happens to a lot of people no matter what gender they belong to. The blog that I wrote was an emotional one because I felt bad for my friend and I without realizing it generalized men.
@buri2_jaemon (619)
• Indonesia
11 Jul 07
i think it's not fair if you say all men are nature cheaters because cheating can happen to all people because cheating is not an genetical possesion but it's more about personality, and the cheater can be a girl to so i don't think all men are cheaters..
@jhoannapena (342)
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
To All men who had responded to my comments thank you and I do apologize that in my comment I had generalized men when in fact it does happen to both gender.
My comment was written when I was still feeling sorry for my friend. She was letting off steam because of her husband. So what basically happened I innocently threw the question to men. I do know that there are a lot of men who put respect on their respective relationship and to those men you have my tremendous respect. My husband is the same, he respects our relationship and he values our family very much.
So again, cheater are not just for men and it does happen to both genders. Maybe you can give advise on what my friend should do?
