While into a Deeeeeep thought....

A girl in a deep thought - deep thought
@subathra (3519)
India
July 18, 2007 4:35am CST
For me, if iam thinking deeply about solving a issue or out of mood situation i have a very least concentration capacity.Even if its something which i like i couldnt think of anything else except the one waving in my mind... Even if i tune into some favourite numbers..i just keep thinking of the problem and unable to enjoy the music.If iam out of mood and someone talks to me even in that situation i cant concentrate just tells them the fact of my prevailing mood .I really feel bad at this sometimes as soemone might want to share their problem or any happiness and my mood spoils their good mood.Iam trying hard to overcome this.Does this happen to you? or... are you the one who has the power of great concentration whatever trouble you face and capable of listening to others even if you were in a very deep thought? please share your views..
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@balasri (26537)
• India
18 Jul 07
This could happen to anybody subathra.I want to be left alone for a while many times when you are thinking seriously,planning,brooding or concentrating.This is very very natural.I hope people understand the value of privacy here.Trying to be nice to us at the wrong moments could be so disastrous.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
19 Jul 07
Any time.When you come across discussions that relate to your own feelings you tend to respond immediately.
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@subathra (3519)
• India
19 Jul 07
even i too like to stay alone for sometime..you are right as this habit is most common in humans.tnks for your response
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
18 Jul 07
Suba, I agree with you, when you are in trouble, it is difficult to concentrate, it happens with me also. If I am thinking something deep and repeatedly thinking about the same issue, I feel very bad and unable to concentrate on other matters. I just cannot distract myself from the problem. But, you have not mentioned the problem, which made you think so deeply. Please let me know the problem, I will see, if I can be of any help to you. Deepak :) :) Have a nice day!
@subathra (3519)
• India
19 Jul 07
hi deepak, good morning !!! As of now i dont have any problem that put me into thinking.Anyway thanks for yur concern.Even if i have any problem i dont mind sharing it with a good friend like you to seek a advise. wish you a nice day.
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
19 Jul 07
Suba, you are most welcome to share your problems, I will see to it...if I can advice you and help you.
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@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
19 Jul 07
It is but natural that you lose interest in everything and drastically fail in concentrating on even important issues when you are worry-ridden.
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@aissha (2036)
• India
19 Jul 07
hi subathra,how u doing ?? i think u are not a outgoing person ,u may have no or very few freind and u may prefer doing things on your own and at ur pace ,or this thing has come up suddenly then u need to see some counsellor. if u don't like the way u are then do the opposite like don't listen to song u put on pacy no. and dance u just go out meet one stranger on road ,even the interaction will be short and insignificant but it will help cahnging ur mind track.need more help from me i'll ,lol
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@subathra (3519)
• India
19 Jul 07
Hi aissha, am doing great..hope you are fine too.. common.. dont judge me to be a silent person.I have so many friends who really care about me.Very rarely i get into some problems and u know my friends & home people identify me so easily with my voice if i sound with any problem.I will share with my friends and get some relief.Anyway thanks for all your valuable advises..happy mylotting..
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@aissha (2036)
• India
19 Jul 07
thats good subathra ,even this discussion was a surprise to me as i didn't percieve u as a silent person earlier but this discussion confused me and i lectured hope u don't mind.
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@subathra (3519)
• India
19 Jul 07
No problem aissha..take care..suba
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@rb200406 (1824)
• India
19 Jul 07
You are not able to overcome the problem when you are thinking about it.Yes it happens to me also.When i am in bad mood i don't enjoy anything.i myself want to overcome this problem.
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@subathra (3519)
• India
19 Jul 07
hi, how r u? you were not seen here for quite a long time.you are right..hope we should find a remedy soon.tnks for the response.
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@subathra (3519)
• India
21 Jul 07
good to note that even in your busy time you spare time for replying to your friends discussion.thanks..and good day
@rb200406 (1824)
• India
20 Jul 07
I am fine .I was a bit busy .Still is but finding time for Mylot.Thanks for your response & concern.
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@yanstill (1490)
• China
21 Jul 07
if i am in deep thought,i will not care about what is happening around.but i think that is a kind of concentration.for example,when i was working on a problem,and i have music around,i can hardly hear the music,even it's very loud,all in my mind is that problem,and how i can fix it. so i think this is because we are too concentrate,that we cant notice other things.
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@subathra (3519)
• India
21 Jul 07
excellent reply yanstill..But this is appreciatable while we are studying but i feel its not that good when we are thinking about some problem as deep thinking may lead to stress...
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@subathra (3519)
• India
22 Jul 07
Its great to see your comment yanstill..even i try to overcome this problem.Hope we get through very soon..tnks
@yanstill (1490)
• China
22 Jul 07
yes,you are right,so in that case,i prefer to ask my friends or my family's advice.
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@mansha (6298)
• India
25 Jul 07
I am the one like you. If I am lost in thought or a mood I fail to even say hello even if someone is waving to me. Many people hae complained to me about this and I often get in to trouble due to this with my seniors. Only my friends know of this habit and they often forgive me for it too.God bless them for being at my side always.
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@subathra (3519)
• India
25 Jul 07
Our friends are the one who understands us very well..but iam trying to come out of this problem..hope to suceed..and boost up my concentration level.tnks for the reply.
@naadia (828)
• India
23 Jul 07
i cant listen to any while i am in deep thought!some time i fell to some thoughts while i am with my friends and never remember the conversation that time!also i am a dream factory!
@subathra (3519)
• India
23 Jul 07
good to see that you have got a good concentration ability.hope you get scoldings from friends for forgetting some conversation as i get most times..