Do you think appearence matter?

They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but sadly I don't think this is true, I have never been attractive on the outside, maybe I've got great qualities inside but people look at you and straight away if you haven't got the 'look' they look the other way and don't give you a second thought. Unless you look like Brad Pitt, George Clooney or David Beckham. Clothes help to a certain degree although people tend to look at your clothes and see riches that's the attraction!

It's quite normal for us to go through the stage where we put in a lot of time and attention over our appearance. As we grew older, we realized that appearance is only secondary. I have friends who are quite stunning and gorgeous physically but I can't say the same thing on their attitude department. I would prefer to look through the deeper layer of a person. Our appearance will fade out in time but not the goodness of our personality and attitude.

Yes I think appearance does matter. I think you should look groomed and clean. And your clothes should be neatly pressed. Because when meet someone for the first time we should always look our best it reflects on our personality and how we live.

I have seen it in the past but I think any one who reacts in this way is very shallow and not worth worrying about! I think making most of what you have and hygiene issues are more important than the way you look! xxx

no, i think its more on the performance, brain, or with the attitude. confidence must be well used.