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Good question ... maybe don't think about that how many ppl but who :) I got some replies .. but it was about online money making ;) so it's not so impressive :)

You have not been on myLot that long, so do not worry about it. I have no idea when I started to get best responses, but I am sure it was not until I did more than one hundred posts. Usually with best responses, it is hard to choose if both are equal in merit so it does not mean that your post was crap. Now I usually wait until I get more than three posts before I put in a best response. Oh about being honest and open minded. Some people do not like open minded, it makes them think that you are not steadfast in your beliefs, and some people want you to agree with them even when you do not. So you cannot fix that. I would say veer on the side of standing up for your opinion, but give valid reasons for doing so.