Partner?

Pakistan
August 21, 2007 7:55am CST
Hello Friends Its really hard question but i am looking for the answere. What if the person whom you love has some sort of disability or he/she get disabled after you marry with her/him ? how will you react will you leave the relation or will go on with your partner?
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8 responses
@ozzie13 (177)
• Australia
16 Dec 07
i would stick around. I would feel horrible to leave, love isn't just appearance of whatever the injury. When you love someone you sign up to take the good and the bad. I would maybe miss the person they used to be but i wouldn't leave them to deal by themselves.
@rsa101 (22686)
• Philippines
14 Dec 07
It will really depend on person to person. If you really loved the person you would stick but for some they may leave the relationship because for some reasons too.
• India
14 Dec 07
I think I won't leave a person I love just cause he/she is disabled. I don't think anybody would. It is just not possible. A normal person would love the person more and take more care of such a person. Thoughts of leaving such a person will never get in.
@Lifeless (2638)
• India
14 Dec 07
If something of that ever happens with my partner after I have entered in a relationship with her, then I won't think long to just continue on with her and try every thing that can help her get normal.. If nothing still dosen't happen, I am sure gonna be her side..
@nisheeth (507)
• India
8 Sep 07
leave the relation
• United States
21 Aug 07
I would try to make it work. It is hard because you can't know how hard living with a disability can be but I would at least try.if after a good try, I find I couldn't live with him, then I would have to leave.But I owe it to him to give it a try.
21 Aug 07
For me it would be quite easy to stay with someone if they became disabled as I was brought up pretty much single handedly by my disabled Mum. She never allowed this to hold her back and has been such an inspiration to me in showing me how to overcome things that I hope I would be able to help my husband through it.
@deebomb (15319)
• United States
21 Aug 07
Hello bill. Here in the United States the wedding vows state for better or worse. That means sticking around for the bad as well as the good in a marriage or partnership. If your partner develops a disability then you should be willing to stick around for her. This is something that should be decided before the relationship get serious enough to be a marriage, If you can’t stick then did you love her/him in the first place.