You never loose your value :)

India
September 8, 2007 10:44am CST
Hello People, i hope you are enjoying some of the discussions i posted here. And this is one more of those 'motivational' piece i got and wanted to share with everyone her on mylot. I hope you enjoy it and if it makes a wee bit of difference about the way we feel about ourselves, i will consider i have done my 'job' well :) Ano A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "What is this piece of paper & is it worth any thing ?" "It is a $20 bill, encash able in international & national markets for it's quoted value ?" replied one of the many participants who raised their hands. He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up using both his hands till it became a bundle of wrinkled paper. He then unfolded it again and making an unsuccessful attempt to keep it straight he asked, "Would you still be able to negotiate it for it's quoted value?" " Yes !!" was the echoing reply from the participants. "Well," he said, "Looks like I haven't done enough ! What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, which was now all crumpled, dirty, defaced & not easy to recognize from a distance. "Now will some one like to trade it for its quoted value?" Many hands went in the air. "I think this piece of currency is still holding its quoted value" replied a participant in a slightly unsure voice. "This bill can still fetch goods worth 20 Dollars" said the other participants. Every one agreed. "My friends, there is a very valuable lesson in this exercise that we are just through with. It may have appeared to some of you, that I was able to reshape, deface, mutilate & alter the $20 bill during the process as the effects were quite visible". "However, No matter what I did to this piece of paper, you still upheld its negotiability because you were sure in your mind that my actions did not actually decrease its value. It was still a currency note worth $20". "Many times in our lives, we feel like as if we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and/or the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless. It may also appear to onlookers as if it has really happened to certain extent. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, please remember you never lose your "Value". Values that you cherish are indeed devoid of worldly disturbance & always are your savior.
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• Canada
9 Sep 07
This is a lovely post...and I love what you said about "not matter what has happened or what or will happen..one never loses their value." How true. Our inner essence cannot be defined by outer appearances. I believe we are spiritual beings going through human experiences and the core of who we are can never be diminished by others unless we allow it. Your discussion is a great metaphor and I am sure others will benefit from this valuable lesson.
• India
10 Sep 07
hello Perspectives i thought i left a message for you here but...anyway iam gald you liked my discussions and i also got your message about your blog and checked it immediately i guess i did not leave a comment i will go back again and do that and yes its a lovely one and i liked your picture very much :) Ano
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• Canada
6 Nov 07
I haven't been on Mylot as much as I was in the summer and have missed chatting with valued friends like you. Thanks for your interest in my Blog whether you comment or not. Between that and other commitments I have have as with most people there is a lot to juggle. I hope things are going well with you...even when we don't chat as often I am always happy to see your lovely Avatar. Also thank you for the best response on this discussion! Take care and hopefully we'll chat again soon... Warm regards Ano your on-line friend, Raia
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
9 Sep 07
Once again a brilliant post my friend keep them coming, I am sure anyone who felt a bit worthless feels so much better after reading this, thanks for sharing with us
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• India
10 Sep 07
Hello Annie thank you for your lovely comments and you are always welcome :) Ano
• India
9 Sep 07
Hi Socrates.. I love the way you gave this post.... The poor letting drowning confidence of human will sometimes find a peep in every common man's life. But lines like this gets one's Adrenaline pumped up.. (With Regards, from Plato.lol)
• India
10 Sep 07
LOL Hello Plato LOL you are really funny Venkatesh and as for me being Socrates LOL i am sure he does not back to me a whack on the head or turning in his grave!
@xboxboy (5576)
13 Nov 07
that is a great discussion. people need to remember that when having a rough time at work/school.