Beware of...
@MommaOfAllTrades (969)
Canada
November 2, 2007 6:16am CST
not dogs! CATS!
I'm a cat person, I much prefer snuggling with a cat than a dog, but when it comes to trusting an animal, I would trust a dog over a cat anyday!
You can always tell what message a dog is conveying by their body language. Even if he's barking his head off and growling but his tail is wagging like mad, you know he's only trying to play with your head. Well that's what my little one does anyways!
But cats are unpredictable! They can be purring a storm, enjoying the snuggles, cuddles, and scratches under the skin and then the next minute, they bite to let you know they've had enough. I claim all cats Bipolar with serious anger management problems!
On Wednesday, my daughter was outside and picked up a cat assuming it was our neighboor Kelly's cat, Darcy. She snuggled and pet the cat like she always does and snap, the cat took a bite out of her arm. My daughter ran to Kelly's to let her know, all the while crying and bleeding. Kelly called me immediately, assuring me that it was not Darcy since she was in the house. She cleaned my daughter's wounds and sent her home. Kelly also warned me that two other people from the village had been recently biten and were sick afterwards.
I thought nothing of it, it's not the first time my daughter is bitten. This child has no fear my friends and a major love for animals.
The next morning, I woke up by a startled, dizzy, disoriented little girl. She claimed to also have a headache. I knew she heard Kelly tell me that two other people got sick so I *knew* this was a perfect opportunity to get out of school. But as I reached over to guide her back to bed, she was feverishly hot!
Our doctor was worried that regular antibiotics wouldn't cut it, she had to be admitted to the hospital for a few rounds of intravenous antibiotics along with other meds since we don't know the rabbies status of this malicious feline! Her arm, red and hot, was quite swollen.
Nurses at the hospital were quite impressed with this brave little *matter-of-fact* kinda girl who was curious and wanted to watch this IV inserted in her arm. She was apprehensive at the first sight of that needle, however a little coaxing and telling her how brave she is did the trick!
Once the meds startled flowing, she asked the nurse if she could walk around. She grabbed my camera and took a gazillion pictures of everything as she proudly pushed the pole around the room and she needed to make not one, but two trips down the hall to the bathroom showing off!
We'll be heading to the hospital again shortly for another round of meds. I'm proud of my brave little girl but I sure hope she learned her lesson! No more cuddles with outside animals!
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@girlgonefishing (2174)
• United States
2 Nov 07
Your poor little girl! I hope this isn't going to scar her love towards cats forever. How many more treatments does she have to have at the hospital? Here's a great big hug from me. :-) Hope it helps.
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@girlgonefishing (2174)
• United States
2 Nov 07
You must be beside yourself with it not getting any better. I hope your plans don't get ruined and that your daughter does better soon.
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@MommaOfAllTrades (969)
• Canada
2 Nov 07
Yesterday they told me one more should do it, as long as the arm didn't swell any more... well the swelling is worse and like I said, it's oozing pretty bad. I'm just waiting for her to get ready and then we are out the door.
I have plans tomorrow, plans I've made months ago and I dont want a sitter to be taking her to the hospital so I am sooooo hoping this is the last time today... If not, my plans will have to be cancelled and I know a birthday husband who will be disappoited LOL
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@MommaOfAllTrades (969)
• Canada
2 Nov 07
The funny thing is, I'm as calm as calm can be. I'm not worried the least bit. Her teacher this morning told me about another teacher who lost her thumb due to a cat bite and my first thought was: Are you trying to make me feel better? I just thought it was a weird comment LOL
Yesterday was worrysome since she was disoriented and very clingy but today she's back to her old amusing, funny and off the wall self which helps me stay very calm!
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@raychill (6525)
• United States
3 Nov 07
I think the key is KNOWING the animal. Whether it's a cat or a dog or a snake or a bird or a squirrel. Who cares what the animal is, if you don't know it you always have to be cautious of it. My cat will be all cute and cuddly and everything and then like 2 seconds later he'll be all crazy biter mode and I know him so I know when he's going to get like that and he doesn't bite me. Besides, he only does that to ME and not to strangers. I know my cat. I know what he's going to do.
You can't blame the type of animal, you can only blame yourself for trusting an animal that you didn't know. That's just my opinion.
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@MommaOfAllTrades (969)
• Canada
3 Nov 07
I completely understand what you mean however it's been my experience that cats are unpredictable.
My daughter honestly thought the cat she was picking up was Darcy, a cat she does trust. I'm happy to report that this morning, her arm was back to normal, the infection and the swelling is gone.

@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
2 Nov 07
That is really something.. I don't really go after cats outside..but I will even keep an eye on my inside cats.
I sure hope that your little girl doesnt develop a fear of all cats because of that nasty bite from the outside cats.
Thanks for sharing. This was really an interesting and helpful topic.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
3 Nov 07
Looks like her guardian angel has alot of work cut out for him..no matter it is obvious God has His eye on her;)
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@MommaOfAllTrades (969)
• Canada
3 Nov 07
My daughter's love for animals will not be hindered by a bite. As we left the school yesterday (picking up her homework), she saw a dog and ran right towards it so she could pet him. I looked at her teacher and said: She'll never learn!
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@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
2 Nov 07
Wow! I hope she is ok now. That should be a lesson to all of us. Any animal,even our own, can get mad at any given minute. I guess since so many people like to snuggle with cats, maybe we should learn not to do so except in our own home with our own cats.
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@MommaOfAllTrades (969)
• Canada
2 Nov 07
She is OK however her arm has swollen outside of the lines they drew on her arm which is a great concern. She also picked at the scab this morning to find lots of neverending oozing puss flowing. Hospital has asked me to bring her back in asap so I'm off again to another 45 minute drive in town! What an exciting day this has become! :)
@Perspectives (7131)
• Canada
3 Nov 07
First up I am sorry to hear about the distressing events your daughter experienced with the cat. She does sound like a real trooper and her attitude is to be admired. Also says a lot about how you are raising her though...so give yourself some credit too.
However, I cannot subscribe to your views that "ALL cats are bipolar with anger management problems." Of course I do not like sweeping global statements about anyone or anything because I tend to assess everything on an individual bases and think there are two sides to most issues...and I have had completely different experiences with cats than them falling under your judgment of them.
I also have worked with pet lovers and animal trainers for years and cats do have their own body language it you know how to read it. Tail held high with the tip slightly curled is one happy cat. Ears pulled close to the head and tail switching is a cat in defense mode...cats meandering around with tails aligned with with back is a cat in observation mode. Cats who attack without provocation can have something wrong with their wiring for sure...just like dogs and people. So does it happen...yes...are all cats schizoid. No...not in my opinion.
We have two large dogs and five cats...mostly indoor animals and we raised them in a lovely secure home and just like all the cats and dogs before them they have never bitten anyone and are very sociable with strangers. Just like people...pets often 'do what they know' because of their conditioned existence. I have included a photo of some of our furry family members. Comments are always appreciated.
Best regards to you and yours,I sincerely hope your daughter comes through this okay and doesn't develop an aversion to animals because of it.
Best regards to you and yours,
Raia

@Perspectives (7131)
• Canada
6 Nov 07
I can see the comedic intent and agree with you that cats are loving but also very self-contained and have their boundaries intact. Most cats have an amazing way of being authentic to themselves and in some ways it would be better for people if they could learn to set boundaries, play hard, sleep well and feel good about yourself regardless of what other think regardless of what other think. It has been said that we all need to have enough self worth that the rejection of our ideas by others. Cats do that with no problem...whereas dogs often compromise what they want to serve their owners needs first...kind of 'furry people pleasers.'
Anyway, fun topic and thanks for the best response...much appreciated!
Raia
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@MommaOfAllTrades (969)
• Canada
4 Nov 07
Thank you, I never would have thought to give myself credit for her love and concern for animals. She just has such a great big heart.
My comments on bipolar with anger management was meant to be comical. Yes cats do have body language, you are absolutely right! Our own cat loves to be pet but only on his own terms and when he's had enough, he let's us know with a quick 'bite' warning which I find very odd. The bite is not hard enough to injure nor scratch however it's concerning which was my base for my amusing globalization. Thank you for your comment!
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
2 Nov 07
Wow, what an adventure your little girl had and hopefully a lesson learned. Though she really did believe it to be her neighbors cat, caution should be used on all animals.. I am glad to see she will be fine, but it sounds like someone needs to take care of that cat before it does more damage..
@MommaOfAllTrades (969)
• Canada
2 Nov 07
I've told her many many times to only snuggle with a cat if the cat is indoors AND she has permission from an adult... but she's the kind of kid who'd nurse a wounded bird (or skunk LOL) back to health. I just can't keep her away from animals, domestic or wild! She told me yesterday that ALL animals need to be loved, not just the ones we know and trust. What a spin on my outlook! LOL
I believe, and I will confirm when I return to the hospital that they are obligated to report any animal related injury to the health department who will in turn investigate for more information and description of the cat. I just hope they find the owner and give him/her a stern warning, and a fine if the cat isn't vaccinated and outdoors!
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
2 Nov 07
The cat may not have an owner, but if it did, you are right, they should be held accountable.
I understand her wanting to pick up every animal, I too am like that and my daughter. And though we should care for each animal, we should still be cautious, I hope she understands that now, because next time she may be hurt worse and how would she help the animals then?
She sounds like she would be a good vet, I don't know her age, but if you have a joint vocational school she can go to in high school, she can learn much there. My daughter took animal care and production at ours and she loved it. she gets side jobs for dog/cat sitting all the time..:)
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@MommaOfAllTrades (969)
• Canada
3 Nov 07
Thank you hun, my daughter is 8! a little while still for high school but you are absolutely right!







