whom would you choose?

It depends on the situation mainly. A situation like this should never come. It depends on person to person whom they really want. For me Parents come first then lover. Love is what which makes people happy not sad. If you are choosing your lover over your parents who have lived their life only to see us smile then it is wrong. But if u choose parents over lover, then as true lover that person will understand your situation and may be your lover only guide or help u from this situation.

Uhmm my mom said dont be afraid to lose a husband coz there is a thousands of them there.. parents are only one in this world,, BUT if i really love this guy then againsts all odds baby..

i don't really know. ii think it depends upon the situation. they all say that it is only your family that can give you unconditional love but i think it depends upon what kind of fanily do you come from.probably if i'm not happy with my family or they mistreat me.. or something like that i would rather choose my lover. LOL i don't know really i haven't been in that kind of situation. or maybe if your lover is worth the risk you can choose him or her. LOL

i choose my parents.with out them i cant get this life and i cant meet my lover.thay made able to leave and they given everything what i want and they protect me from all the things in my life and they are with me in all the situations.i cant leave them for sake of my lover.

I am single now. So I would definitely choose my parents. We can choose our Lover but we cannot choose our Parents. Our parents accepts us for who we are and will always be there. Whereas, given the high divorce rates nowadays, I do not think Love can be trusted. Some people just cannot be faithful. I rather have my parents.

It is a very tough decision to make. But if i am put into that kind of situation; I will choose my parents. They are only one in this world. I could no longer find a replacement for them. Unlike your lover, you can always choose. That is why we can disown a lover but not a parent. Once your relationship with your lover ended - that's it. That's the end of everything. You can no longer own each ohter. Unlike with your parents, you can never end the relationship. You will always be their child and they will always be your parents for life.

I would definately choose my lover. I love my parents dearly. I have went through the loss of my mopm, then I gained another one and a great one at that. And my dad is wonderful, but I have 2 girls, and I could not bare to see them without their daddy.