whom would you choose?

India
November 24, 2007 12:28am CST
if at all in your life a situation comes when you have to chose between your parents or your lover,whom would you choose??
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7 responses
@maapav (729)
• India
24 Nov 07
It depends on the situation mainly. A situation like this should never come. It depends on person to person whom they really want. For me Parents come first then lover. Love is what which makes people happy not sad. If you are choosing your lover over your parents who have lived their life only to see us smile then it is wrong. But if u choose parents over lover, then as true lover that person will understand your situation and may be your lover only guide or help u from this situation.
• India
24 Nov 07
yes even i hope never to come across such a situation in life.
@ayou82 (3460)
• Philippines
24 Nov 07
Uhmm my mom said dont be afraid to lose a husband coz there is a thousands of them there.. parents are only one in this world,, BUT if i really love this guy then againsts all odds baby..
• India
24 Nov 07
oh its really a confusing situation.let your choice yield you a better life.
@royanne (372)
• Philippines
24 Nov 07
i don't really know. ii think it depends upon the situation. they all say that it is only your family that can give you unconditional love but i think it depends upon what kind of fanily do you come from.probably if i'm not happy with my family or they mistreat me.. or something like that i would rather choose my lover. LOL i don't know really i haven't been in that kind of situation. or maybe if your lover is worth the risk you can choose him or her. LOL
• India
24 Nov 07
Your reply is the first of one its kind,its nice that you have given a new dimension to the topic.
@izathewzia (5141)
• Philippines
24 Nov 07
It is a very tough decision to make. But if i am put into that kind of situation; I will choose my parents. They are only one in this world. I could no longer find a replacement for them. Unlike your lover, you can always choose. That is why we can disown a lover but not a parent. Once your relationship with your lover ended - that's it. That's the end of everything. You can no longer own each ohter. Unlike with your parents, you can never end the relationship. You will always be their child and they will always be your parents for life.
• India
24 Nov 07
its an excellent point that you have made.as you said ,we can never replave our parents.
@poohgal (6848)
• Singapore
24 Nov 07
I am single now. So I would definitely choose my parents. We can choose our Lover but we cannot choose our Parents. Our parents accepts us for who we are and will always be there. Whereas, given the high divorce rates nowadays, I do not think Love can be trusted. Some people just cannot be faithful. I rather have my parents.
• India
24 Nov 07
Even i agree with you.the present relationships are not so reliable as it used to be.
@shak143 (1280)
• India
24 Nov 07
i choose my parents.with out them i cant get this life and i cant meet my lover.thay made able to leave and they given everything what i want and they protect me from all the things in my life and they are with me in all the situations.i cant leave them for sake of my lover.
• India
24 Nov 07
Your parents are lucky to get a child like you.i appreciate your attitude.
• United States
24 Nov 07
I would definately choose my lover. I love my parents dearly. I have went through the loss of my mopm, then I gained another one and a great one at that. And my dad is wonderful, but I have 2 girls, and I could not bare to see them without their daddy.
• India
24 Nov 07
I do understand your feelings and i do wish all happiness to your family.