are all gays polygamous?

You see my dear chari_dc, relationships between opposites are value laden, they are purposed and they generate intense attachment and guardedness. The reason being, I marry my wife not just for fun-it is to perpetuate my gene and i want this gene unadulterated-my wife must produce my offsprings, that is why I cannot say it is okay for John, Harry and Joe to tresspass in my marriage sexually-now gay have relatonships are for fun-they have no attachments,they have nothing at stake,they can have multiple relatonships without causing any heart ache-why should they bother about multiple relationships?

My father and his partner are monogamous, as are quite a few of the gay couples I know. The problem is that the gays who get the most attention are the party scene people. Just like straight party scene people, most of them are not in serious relationships, and do things like taking a new person home from the club every night. That isn't to say that there aren't gays in long-term open relationships, but I've known far more straight people in the polyamory scene than gay ones. I've actually been in poly relationships myself, and most of the people I met on forums for poly folk, or in everyday life that were in polyamorous relationships, were straight, with a few gays or bisexuals (like myself) mixed in.

It depends on the person still. I have heard stories about gays who tends to be very tight with their man. They were strongly guarding their man. These group of people are not all the same.

that statement is utterly and rediculously false. maybe in the circles this person runs in, its how they choose to live their lives, and i see nothing wrong in it. but to say it is how ALL are is purely ignorant. ive known plenty of gay couples (male and female) that are completely monogomous.