High Schoolers Jumping a Middle Girls

It's so hard when someone is being bullied. There really is no set rule on how to deal with this. The police should be able to talk to these girls about the problem. Just because they come to late doesn't mean there is nothing they can do. Her parents can also file a complaint against the girls for harrassment. If it comes down to it and your cousin is attacked and you feel as though you have to defend her, well we all have the right to feel safe and protect ourselves. This would be as a last resort. Do not take the law into your own hands. If the school will not do anything then maybe the school baord needs to be notified of the fact that the facualty is not protecting their students. Please do not go and fight these girls. You need to use the laws that are at hands. I want you to know I went theough something like this when I was about your cousins age. The fact that I stood up to them and would not back down to them made them stop. You see they wanted me to be scared and when I wasn;t they left me alone. I never had to fight any of them. when you are being bullied it is about that person feeling bigger and stronger than you. i this girlfriend did not have her girls backing her up she would not be bothering your cousin. Again Please Do Not Do Something Yu Will regret.

If talking to them doesn't get to them then you should definatley protect your cousin, the school should care more and if they don't then you have to do what you think is best. I think its really nice for you to be there for your cousin, those girls should be more mature and leave her alone their in high school and should know better than that.

oh kids can be so mean!! My daughter went thru a similar thing when she was in highschool. There were a couple of mild confrontations at the school and many threats outside of the school. The school was made aware of the conflict between these girls and they did well in keeping an eye on things. It got so bad that I did talk to the police who initiated a meeting between the girl's parents and me with the girls present. The girls were warned to stay clear of each other. I don't know...sounds as if you need some adult intervention here before someone gets seriously hurt. Where are her parents...your parents....their parents??

Well you definitely need to contact the police and let them know what is going on and if at all possible get a restraining order against these girls. You know...it is so crazy when middle school and high school are involved. Let me just tell you, me now being 28, that once you get out of high school nothing that ever happened in the school even matters anymore. Everything becomes irrelevant after school is finished. Definitely defend her if she is getting beat up, but quite honestly if you can contact the police to head it off before it starts would be your best way to go. Fighting is really childish and i'm so sorry that your cousin is having to experience that at such an early age. Keep us posted on here though about the situation and God bless