What would you do?

United States
January 12, 2008 8:49am CST
What would you do if your husband walked in the door after working a 12 hour shift and instead of kissing you kissed the dog then looked in the closet and complanined of it not being cleaned enough then said he was going to leave for an hour and the closet better be cleaned. Would you be upset? How would you handle that? i watched that little fight happen between my mother and stepdad last night and was very upset with my stepdad.
6 responses
@kiran1978 (4137)
• Australia
9 Feb 08
I would tell that afwul insensitive husband to sleep with the dog tonight. Sounds a bit shovanistic to me, how dare he demand that cupboard better be clean when he gets back. It sounds like he treats the dog better then his wife. He needs to snap out of it, lol. Your mother deserves a lot better. Sorry but I just had to express my feelings, do not mean to sound offensive to your family.
• United States
9 Feb 08
i totally agree with you. He does treat the dog better then my mother heck he makes my mother sleep on the couch while he sleeps in the bed with the dog by his side. Why she stays married to him I don't know.
• United States
9 Feb 08
I would feel the same way as you feel, i understand why your upset. I would of just helped my mom clean the closet.
@artemis432 (7474)
• Abernathy, Texas
14 Jan 08
I think its inapropriate and would say so. Of course my husband works at the hanger on base and gets home at 12 am about so I don't get a kiss. But then he doesn't complain if the say the laundry is still in baskets in the bedroom or whatever.
@cosylvia (401)
• China
13 Jan 08
i am sorry to hear that,maybe it is necessary to have a discussion between you and stepdad,i dont like that happend again wish you have a good day
@fairyanny (363)
• China
13 Jan 08
Yeah,it is real upset.I just think maybe they can have a sincery talk,just tell each other what they want.It donn't happen in my family,so I just guess that should take effection.
@leeesa (885)
• United States
12 Jan 08
I'm sorry you had to see that. It sounds like a control issue to me. But it may not mean anything. Sometimes people get in moods where there are not happy with anything and it isn't you personally.