Did you ever pull a cookie heist?
By Dr. Ann
@drannhh (15219)
United States
February 3, 2008 3:49pm CST
When they give away cookie samples in the supermarket, did you ever grab two of them instead of one? If not, why not?
If so, did you do it with a calm demeanor, or did you look around furtively as you gulped them down? Were you able to savor the flavor, or did guilt take your appetite away? For that matter, would you shy away from food samples because they might be tainted?
I've seen some I wouldn't want to eat. Our local market doesn't break the cookies up into disgusting little chunks and leave them out in the open, they keep them whole in a nice covered container, with a message written on the lid that states "One per customer, please." Would that make any difference to you?
If people offer you a cookie in their home, and you are really hungry and their cookies are really good, would you ever just take two instead of one right from the start, or do you wait to be asked? Most people say, "Would you like a cookie?" Do you think that means you are only welcome to take one? Are you a Cookie Monster?
When you are entertaining a small group do you prepare enough food for an army of hungry soldiers, or do you make just enough to get by? Would you be embarrassed if you ran out of food?
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16 responses
@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
4 Feb 08
I'll take two if I want, if there is no sign that says "one per customer". Why not? They are placing the cookies out for all - and if they want people to follow their rules, post them. If they dont care or don't have rules, then why should it matter? No, I wouldn't take the whole tray, but again, why not? Doesnt' say you can't.
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@girlgonefishing (2174)
• United States
4 Feb 08
At the wholesale club where I shop they give out samples on tons of stuff. I usually end up being there at lunch time. I have to say, I would never be able to take more than one, sign or no sign. I do however always ask when going to a friends house "wow, those look great, how many do I get?" That way, I'm not only complimeting the person offering but, I also know how many I can have. I always cook for the army AND the navy when I have a dinner party. LOL
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
4 Feb 08
Yes, we must not forget the Navy! I'm pretty sure if you asked that at my house I would give you a big hug and say this tray is entirely for you and what you don't eat here take home! Since you like ginger, I must someday tell you about my ginger carrot cookies. Mmmmmmmm.
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
8 Feb 08
Kewl, but the recipe is at my summer place. Basically, though, you know that crystallized ginger candy you made from my other recipe? Well, if there is any left, I just chop it up and add it to ordinary cookie mix along with a handful of the pulp left over after juicing carrots. If the pulp is damp then maybe a bit less liquid, and there they are healthy and delicious. If, gosh forbid, the left-over candy gets really old and hard, it can be "plumped" like raisins, you know, before adding. Mmmmmm.
@girlgonefishing (2174)
• United States
5 Feb 08
I worked for the Navy for 10 years. It's how I met my husband. He just had his 25th year anniversary there. Hey, don't be shy girl, give me that recipe! LOL

@JoyfulOne (6231)
• United States
4 Feb 08
Hehehehe, no I never ever pulled a cookie heist lol. Although I have seen many people do this. I don't usually like to take anything from the 'try me' tray just because you never know if the last person there has washed their hands or not (or if they have a cold or are just getting over the flu.) I'm not a germ-o-phobe by any means, I just don't trust people to not touch cookies, etc, that they're not going to eat. I'm from the old school: you touch it, you eat it. I've seen kids and adults alike touch one, then take a different one, and that's too many community germs for me lol. In somebodys home, if they offer me a cookie from a plate, I'll only take one. When I have a group over, I always try to make enough so that I won't run out of something. While I wouldn't be embarrassed if I ran out of something, I'm pretty sure I could find something else to substitute so nobody'd go hungry.
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
4 Feb 08
I wish more people were like you in their regard for sanitation. We used to have a friend that would bite a chip and THEN dip it in the dip, so we never do dips in public. Our local bakery provides the those little sheets of deli paper for handling the cookies and most of the day the store employees hand out the cookies themselves, but you are right, as soon as the bakers turn their back's somebody is probably in there pawing them over. Yuck!
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
3 Feb 08
If I fix food for anything, I tend to fix monstrous amounts of food. I judge what I take at other's homes by what I know about them. People like me, who love to feed armies, will usually say, "Have some cookies" and will have Grandma's antique plates piled high with cookies. In the store, if I were really hungry, I might take two cookies, but that would only be bakery cookies. The ones in packages are generally not worth the calories. The ladies in the bakery and deli would not care. I used to be a sampler and give out the samples. I am never unemployed, you see. I avoid samples for a couple of reasons, neither of which is believing they are contaminated. I avoid them because I will either want to buy it if I taste it, or the second reason is that I really cannot afford the extra calories. Would I be embarrassed to run out of food, you bet I would, it will not happen here.
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@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
6 Feb 08
Oh, wow. Love to see it. I am off today, and cooking up a storm.
@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
5 Feb 08
I don't tend to grab the food samples in the supermarket because usually there would be a sales person nearby and they would bug you to buy the whole package! As for going to people's home, I usually eat before I go to their houses so that I wouldn't turn up really hungry and stuff. Also, if they offer me some cookies, I would just take one and wait to be asked to take more. And if I am holding a party, I would make sure that there is more than enough food. I would feel embarrassed if I don't have enough food for our guests.
@crazed_moma (1054)
• United States
3 Feb 08
I just get them for my kids. I feel odd eating in public so it's not an issue for me. ;)
As for party food I feel that everyone should be welcome to take what they want. I do prepare extra just in case the people who came were hungry.
Running out of food could be embearassing, or you could look at it as people really like your cooking. :)
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
6 Feb 08
I usually stay away from those samples...even if they look attractive...at a place in India, which is usually dusty I wouldn't want to try anything that is out in the open (and God alone knows for how long!)
Well, if it was kept as in your local market, I would probably try one.
If people offered me cookies at their home, I would take one and if it was really good, I would tell them so and pick one more. People will be thrilled if a guest did that in India.
I make a little more than I expect would be eaten and I would surely be embarrassed if I ran out of food!

@drannhh (15219)
• United States
6 Feb 08
Oh, yes, you are so right about food that sits outdoors. Once when I was much younger and much more foolish, I ate a taco from a food cart in a different country and talk about sick. Three days later, when I became human again, I vowed not to ever do that again! Hah, Hah, now I know whose house to come to for cookies...
@kitchenwitchoftupper (2290)
• United States
27 Feb 08
A plus rating for this great discussion! I would love to say something about worrying about all the bacteria and germs; but...... a cookie is a cookie is a cookie! In all honesty, I don't sample cookies, but dear Goddess it's not a pretty sight when I go to the Amish Bulk Store. They actually put out cheese samples. Surely by now they ought to recognize my car when it pulls up. If not, then you would think at least one of the people working there would recognize my face or my belly! I have a very interesting technique though, so they may not actually know what I am doing. I will browse a bit and then peer at the cheese tray and pick up one piece with the toothpick provided. Then I browse a bit more and put something into my cart. I then go back to the cheese section and stab another cheese. At this point I may put a block of cheese into my cart. Back to browsing and adding another item to my cart. Back to cheese area. If I am at the cheese display area and see that the deli area is really busy and the workers don't really have time to monitor the cheese tray at any one given time, I will go on a very quick picking hayday, then go back to browsing. This continues for at least an hour. In my defense (as if there could be any defense for behavior such as this), I usually spend anywhere between $60 - $100 at the store while I am there and I only go about once every 3 months. Geeze, I am really creepy aren't I?
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
28 Feb 08
I read your response aloud to hubby who said "It just proves my point that if they put the samples out people will like them and buy some!" It is true, usually we just buy the chocolate chip cookies from that bakery when they are on sale, but if I see hubby sneak an extra cookie I am likely to feel guilty and put a regualrly priced box into the cart.
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
4 Feb 08
LOL cookie heist :):) WEll maybe I have pulled one a time or other, but not regularly.
Have I taken more than one cookie from the samples in the supermarket? It depends. If they were really good, I might have :)ANd if I did, I took the second or third quite naturally, no special reason to feel furtive.
Now if it was the way you describe they do in your local marked and if there was a "one per costumer, please" sign, I would tak only one, because I had been asked nicely :)
I don't think people necessarily mean only one cookie when they ask " WOuld you like a cookie" But I prefer to wait to be offered the second one.
As for preparing food for a group I don't make too little but don't like to make too much either I try to make it balanced . I like to have enough so people can feel free to eat but not too much that it will go to waste.


@Modestah (11177)
• United States
8 Feb 08
no, I do not go back for more at the samples stations - I would be horrified if the server recognized me! instead I whisper to my husband... pst, honey - there is a sample cart over there.... want to try one? you do? hey, see if you can get me one too! lol.
now with unmanned samples like oranges or little cakes or a dice of meat or cheese at the deli I would probably have no trouble taking two, but not always -
if there was a sign one per customer I would not take more than one. though I would allow my children to also take one, even though technically they are not customers. except that they do influence my shopping to a degree.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
8 Feb 08
I wondered if anyone would touch upon the issue of whether the samples are meant for the adult shoppers only or their children as well. You are right that the children would influence you something while shopping so surely they are entitled to a taste. It is rather gross though when parents let their kids mess up the tray. Your kids are undoubtedly wonderfully careful and supervised when they taste. Thanks for your detailed answer :-)
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@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
5 Feb 08
I don't tend to grab the food samples in the supermarket because usually there would be a sales person nearby and they would bug you to buy the whole package! As for going to people's home, I usually eat before I go to their houses so that I wouldn't turn up really hungry and stuff. Also, if they offer me some cookies, I would just take one and wait to be asked to take more. And if I am holding a party, I would make sure that there is more than enough food. I would feel embarrassed if I don't have enough food for our guests.

@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
5 Feb 08
*laughs* I was taught by dad and mom that way! I guess they know people who were really broke back then and therefore it's good to eat first before arriving their houses to visit. I think it's a good thinking too! Sometimes, people might not have anything to welcome us (those forgetful hosts)!

@crazed_moma (1054)
• United States
3 Feb 08
I just get them for my kids. I feel odd eating in public so it's not an issue for me. ;)
As for party food I feel that everyone should be welcome to take what they want. I do prepare extra just in case the people who came were hungry.
Running out of food could be embearassing, or you could look at it as people really like your cooking. :)
@cynicalandoutspoken (4725)
• United States
3 Feb 08
My kids would be better at answering this then me. I don't take any samples from a store. I have a thing about other people touching my food. Even if they have gloves on that still doesn't tell me their fingers weren't in their hair 5 minutes before I showed up so I just can't do it.
But I have seen from working at a StarBucks more "cookie monsters" then the calm demeanored people.
We used to put out samples of our dessert counter over by the sugar and milk area. It would be nothing to see one person walk away with 4 cups of samples or to stay at that counter and take a really long time to fix their coffee while they ate half the tray.
Really, what ever happened to everything in moderation! LoL
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@cifirretsbol (160)
• United States
5 Feb 08
if people are watching me then i would only take one - be it a sample cookie or at someone's house. but if no one's really paying any attention and the cookies are yummy, then i've been known to sneak a second or a third. ;)
as for when i'm entertaining, i tend to take after my grandma in the sense that i keep offering people more and more food until their about to pop. i'd feel badly not having anything to offer people.
@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
19 Feb 08
Well, there have been times I have tried more than one of a Sample if they were cookies, but it would depend on the circumstances as well. As to other foods they have for sample, there have been many I have passed up due to what they looked like, or foods I did not care for in the first place.
When over at someones house, or at a function, etc. where Cookies are served... it would depend on how well you know the people, and how many cookies there are versus how many people are there. Usually if there is more than one kind I will take one of each if there is enough, and then wait for someone to say there are extras if I decide to take any more. I would never want to be somewhere and have someone be afraid to ever have me around again just because I might have made a Pig out of myself.
@jhl930 (3601)
• United States
4 Feb 08
Whenever there are alot of people over I always make sure that if I am going to offer any of them food that there is enough food there for everyone and enough food there for everyone to get what they want and the ammount of food that they want...because I think that goes into being a good host..I would be really really embarrassed if I ask someone if they wanted food and they said yes and I didn't have enough food to feed everyone that wanted some...I mean wouldn't anyone be embarrassed if that happened to them?!
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
4 Feb 08
Not one of my neighbors, lol. But there was a restaurant we used to patronize in the San Francisco Bay Area and it got the best eatery award in our community something like 5 years in a row and had really unique gourmet food, but one night they ran out of bread. Now really! And they did not offer a substitute of any kind nor did they give us a discount on the meal. If I had been that chef I would have stirred up some kind of little quick bread or made breadsticks out of the pizza dough or something, even just a plate of crudites or antipasto...even sliced cheese, but you know...something!
















