is is better?

personally,it is absolutely better to love than never to love. in the relationships you could learn, give and gain.

the only things i regret is what i did not do...i have loved often but not wisely but now i have a mate of 22 years plus and we have made a good life but it is not the life i thought i would be living..getting older brings changes is attitude...and what you thought was cool at 20 is not so cool at 60...so you get my drift...

Sometimes I wonder this same question myself. It hurted me worser to be loved and then have a break up.

I think it's better to have loved and lost, it may have seemed awful during the time of break ups, but I learned what I really needed in the future from all of that.

i think its better to have loved and lost because being inlove is the greatest feeling in the world and everyone deserves a chance to experience it

I wouldn't know, but I would think yes. I'd rather have the experience than a bunch of "what if"s.

Hi there stacyv81! Yes, I believe that it is better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all. I think that all of our experiences, good or not, we learn from them. They make us stronger and adds to our knowledge so nothing is going to waste.