why call people nerds or geeks?
@Hatley (163772)
Garden Grove, California
April 9, 2008 5:18pm CST
I was just responding to a discussion about why do men alwasys fall for the flashy women and some reply had something to say about they would always choose the football hero over a geek or a nerd.
My question is why do we put labels on people? I have met some guys who were labeled nerds or geeks and found nothing about them that was dumb or head in the sky type of guys. both these men had married very intelligent women and were tops in their own particular fields. also they were not antisocial and had a lot of friends. so why were they ever labeled nerds or geeks?
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
10 Apr 08
I really do not know why
To many People judge by looks they do not go for the inside of a Person at all, it is the looks they go for and it makes me mad as the best looking Guy/Woman could be the biggest bully/B*tch in the World but because they have the looks they are the in thing
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Apr 08
You know the biggest bully in our school was actually a good looking kid and i had forgotten all about that after all these years.
@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
10 Apr 08
They fit a certain criteria and thus were labeled..Those that chose to label people didn't see beyond the glasses, or the brain type kids, or like that..It is sad that people have to label others..
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Apr 08
yes it is sad and we tend to sterotype people by races and that toois just wrong.
@ayumitakashi (4462)
• United States
10 Apr 08
Well I'm a girl and I was kind of a geek in high school. But I wasn't the type of geek that they stereotype in tv. I was actually pretty cool with a lot of people. I knew a bunch of people, I was in my dance class, chorus, and performed in our first ever theatre program. People would call me a geek just because I had good grades. I didn't mind because I don't care what they call me and they did it with a good heart. But when it's done for evil then that's awful. I've seen some geeks that are pretty hot so I don't know. Sometimes i think it's because people are jealous that they are so smart and decided to give them a name to punish them for being so smart or something.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Apr 08
nothin wrong with good grades and if they smile thats great but those who are jealous that is so bad.
@ShardAerliss (1488)
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9 Apr 08
Because humans are tribal. We need things to differentiate 'them' from 'us.' It's really that simple, as far as I'm concerned.
BTW, geek is not an insult. I'm a geek, I'm a huge geek. Call me a nerd and I'll punch you in the nose :P A geek, in these parts, is someone who has a high level of interest in a particular subject. You can be a computer geek, a movie geek or even a football geek.
Although the words origins and its path to the current definition are... tortuous to say the least!
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Apr 08
yep I am a geek too and my son we are computer geeks




