Mid-Seventies Rock & Roll Remembrances

United States
May 16, 2008 1:17pm CST
In 1975, I worked for my first concert promoter. I was 21, soon to be 22. I answered an ad in the paper that read: Person to answer phones. Young and attractive. Period, that's all it said. So I went, and was hired that day for the job of receptionist at Panther Productions, the smaller of the two major concert promoters here in my city. We were relatively small, but at that time, it didn't really matter, we had some amazing concerts and in the most wonderful venues too - some of them were old theaters, very small and intimate, and others were at the auditorium, and that only seated probably 9000. But this was in 75, remember. Anyway, I was there for a year and then the owner got busted and sent to jail for god knows what infractions, and I was looking for work. Oh, btw, I was known as "the voice". Well, the other promoter knew me and when he found out I was looking for work, he offered me the job of receptionist at his business, Contemporary Productions, which is a very major promoter in today's market also. He wanted 'the voice' at his front desk. Super. Wonderful. Let's just say I had many adventures while there. I had my own laminated backstage pass, front row center seats to every concert, and access to every group that we had. A couple of you have asked me to relate some stories from that time and I have way too many to tell you all of them, so I'm going to tell you one or two to start with, ok? So, Billy Joel is coming into town, it's 1976, and I'm dating one of his roadies, a gorgeous Mississippi cowboy aptly named Dusty Fargo. Long hair and a beard of course, big brown soulful eyes, absolutely yummy. I went to the concert to meet him, and he sat me up on top of a big speaker cabinet, gave me a bottle of Grand Marnier, and told me he'd see me after the concert. No prob. There I sat and listened to Billy Joel, who I had never heard of at that time and was damn near blown off that cabinet by how good he was. You should have seen him back then, oh my, he was a force to be reckoned with. After the concert, we were all milling about backstage, record company people, promoter staff, band members, roadies, groupies, you name them, they were there. And, as young and innocent as I was (and I'm not kidding here, honest), I just walked up to Billy as he was in conversation with a group of folks, and told him how much I loved his concert. The waters parted, and he took my hand and thanked me most sincerely and we chatted for a while. After everything was all put away, Dusty and I went back to the hotel and ended up in Billy's room, along with the rest of the band. We did some primo coke, (it was the best back then, and I haven't done it since the seventies) talked, laughed, all of it. I carried a journal with me at all times then, wrote everything down -I had left my first husband not long before and I was pretty much of a mess emotionally, so I used the book as a tool for coming back to myself. I asked Billy if there was anything he might like to say in my book and he said yes, absolutely, thank you and I actually let him take it out of the room to write in it - some trust, wow. I didn't read what he had written till the next morning when I was home. This is what he wrote to me: I don't really have any particular religious or political philosophy. Excuse me for quoting one of my own phrases, but life goes on no matter who is wrong or right. I actually just wanted to hear you talk and watch your mouth and eyes. But I don't want to do anything to upset Dusty. Ha. Isn't that noble? Anyway, writing it out relieves a certain dimension of lust. okay.... That's what he wrote to me. Pretty cool, huh? I thought so. And you know, I've always thought that he wrote the song "She's Always a Woman" for me, truly I have. It was on the Turnstiles album, put out in 1977. Call it ego, 'cause it is, but still, I choose to believe it and I'm stickin' with that. There's one story for you. I'll tell you more in another discussion. Tell me one. Please. Thank you.
3 people like this
12 responses
@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
18 May 08
You rock! Your even sexier now than you were before. I wish I could tell you some 70's rock star story but I can't... Other than the rock star, you see before you was born in '73...Talk about ego! LOL
2 people like this
• United States
19 May 08
Born in 73 were you? Whippersnapper!! And listen, honey, ain't no one sexier than our rockin Skinnychick! The ego fits - wear it proudly, baby!
1 person likes this
• United States
19 May 08
I wouldn't have it any other way- my dear Nova!! :) LOL
• Regina, Saskatchewan
16 May 08
Nova, I could have been right there beside you! I mean, in the mid seventies I was working for a brand new kind of tv station in my city. I was there on the ground floor, took all the publicity black and white photos of the stars that appeared on one of the talk shows, was a 'roadie' lol, on all the simulcasts that we did in conjunction with the radio station owned by the tv station. These concerts were filmed for the tv live, while the sound also went out over the airwaves by radio at the same time. They were usually small venues we broadcast from - a lot of "older folk" clubs and private clubs. I met so many artists representing various kinds of music and some really terrific people. And some real bummers too! LOL Yeah, I could write a book with all the notes I kept during that period, because I too was emotionally screwed at the time! It's weird how people can live parallel lives huh? And then to find each other after the fact - one of life's little miracles I'd say.
1 person likes this
• United States
16 May 08
Oh Spark, it IS one of life's little miracles! Man, what a trip. Oops, I'm slipping back into the vernacular! So there you were, pretty much the same place as me, but you had a much more important and vital job than I did, taking those photographs, I think. But still, it was indeed parallel, wasn't it? And here we are now, typing to each other, from sooooo far away, sisters in spirit, kindred souls, tied together somehow, Spark, you and me and I so love it. Shite, I'm getting all teared up right now as I type this. I just feel so much for you, that doesn't say it right, I feel YOU, Spark, I guess, I just feel you. I'm so glad you're here. The big here, not the little here. You know what I mean. You always do. XXX
2 people like this
• Regina, Saskatchewan
16 May 08
Passing the kleenex, --- Yes I know exactly what you mean! Hugs. I've set up a folder on my computer for these stories of yours. So I'm letting you know now that I'm copying them. And one day before you can blink I will print them out, gather up my own from the time, meet up with you and over a few bottles of whatever you drink and a grand couple of days, we will share our stories, fill in the details and bond at the heart in the flesh! Yep, uh huh, you betcha!!!!
1 person likes this
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 May 08
I love the idea of your kisses coming via Sparky Nova. But I'll have to get to you, or you'll have to stow away in Sparky's suitcase. I want to taste those sweet kisses for myself too.
2 people like this
@mummymo (23706)
17 May 08
OH Wow Nova how wonderful! I didn't realise that you had lived a life with the rich and famous and I loved what he wrote to you - sounds like there is a very good chance he did write that song for you! I wish I had a story like that to tell but I am afraid my life is very dull and boring anyway but compared to your experiences it is even more so! Please share some more of your memories soon - I loved reading this one! xxx
@mummymo (23706)
19 May 08
Aww Nova sweetheart how do I respond to that? lol Thank you sweety for all the lovely things you have said and reminding me how lucky i am to have Niamh - and her big brother who although at the icky teenage stage is still a joy when he isn't irritating the life out of me! One of these days I will send Niamh across for a holiday with Aunty Nova - you two would have a blast getting all dressed up and doing your hair and makeup! lol I think you are wonderful sweetheart - and I don't want you to share your memories if they bring you any sadness - I hate the thought of you being in pain! xxxx
• United States
20 May 08
If you send me Niamh, you'll be hard pressed to get her back, ya know. But I love that you even would put that thought into a sentence, thank you so much. You saw what I said there, mummy, using the word bittersweet. And it's not sad, it's just nostalgic, it's once, rarely, in the tiniest moments wondering what might have been, but at the very same tiny moment, it's also knowing that I wouldn't give up any moment after either. I know in my deepest heart that everything that happens is supposed to happen and what I have in my life now is the most incredible and blessed thing that I could ever imagine having. What is it about you, mummy, that sees so deeply into a person to bring forth this much depth of emotion? You are an old soul. A young woman, but an old soul. You must be. Ok, either that or one of god's angels. As our Spark says, there is magic in this place - miracles - milagro. You are.
1 person likes this
• United States
19 May 08
Mummy, it's true - I've had some wonderful experiences and met some truly amazing people, but none more amazing than yourself and certainly none more loving, generous and kind. I guess it's like comparative joy - look at Niamh, for instance and what joy she brings you and surely there's not a boring moment when she's around. That's one thing I don't and never will have - my own Niamh. But I'm grateful for what I've been able to do in my life and for the enormous gifts I've been given. My time spent in that industry certainly counts as a gift and I had absolutely endless fun with it, to be sure. So many memories to hold in my heart. And I'll share more, I've promised already to do so. Nostalgia is just so bittersweet, you know?
1 person likes this
@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
21 May 08
well nova that was great you got to meet billy joel and he actually wrote in your journal.i did the same kind of work way back then in the seventies.promotional work for a music store here in australia.i worked with a band called sherbert,very big here in oz,you may not have heard of them over there.we were promoting a song called summer lovin,and had to go around to different cities to promote it.we actually had to drive around in an old beat up car,as their fans would literally jump all over the cars trying to get to the guys.i had girl fans pulling my hair and nearly scratching my eyes out because i was behind the counters with the band.it was pretty scary stuff actually,and i definately had a few drinks after a day working with them.cheers sue
• United States
21 May 08
Suehan, it sounds like you've had your own wonderful adventures, good for you. I'm sorry to say that I haven't heard of your band, but that doesn't mean much, really. It must have been a real blast for you - it certainly sounds like lots of fun.
@ellie333 (21016)
16 May 08
Wow Billy Joel and he actually wrote in your journal and if he wasn't such a noble man because you were with Dusty who knows where it may have led. Thank you so much for sharing. I really enjoyed hearing. I would like to think also that he wrote 'She's Always A Woman' for you Nova, cos having seen some of your posts I would say you definately are. I'm just off out now for the evening but will check back in to discussion later to tell you one! Very Good. Ellie :D
• United States
16 May 08
lol, thanks, Ellie, it's the 'having seen some of your posts and I would say you definitely are' that makes me giggle like this, I love it. Yeah, it was very cool that he wrote in my journal and said what he did. I've often thought about what might have happened if I had snuck out of Dusty's room and gone into Billy's that night. But I believe that things work out the way they're supposed to, it's nothing I dwell on. I'm so glad you enjoyed this one, darlin, I'll tell you another one soon, I promise. XXX
1 person likes this
@ellie333 (21016)
16 May 08
I used to live with one of the original Mersey beat crowd who was famous in the 1960's with the Beatles in a band called the Foremost whose best known hit was 'Hey Little Girl' and they after leaving Apple set up their own studio in Shaftsbury Avenue London, Porkie Prime Cuts and you will see that etched onto records like Tainted Love by Soft Cell but that is another story. The one I will share now is my pool match against Sir Bob Geldolf who was in fact an arrogant git back then (BoomTownRat days) but I beat him as my dad has his own games room complete with snooker table so I was good. He really didn't like that at all. This was at the Arlington Heathrow Hotel at Heathrow as the band were due to fly out to Germany the following day. The other band members thought it was hysterical that a girl had beaten him and me and Johnny Fingers complete with his PJ's got absolutely trashed at the bar. Funnily enough I was at a concert at Guildford Civic a few months later and he picked me from the crowd to kiss and I pushed him away jumped up on stage and gave Johnny a big hug and kiss instead. Decandant days eh! Ellie :D
• United States
17 May 08
I really like Billy Joel and always enjoyed his music I think piano man was always my fav. I met him years ago oh about 23 I guess years ago and he played in a club in the florida keys a place called largo salon. he was one of the nicest guys I ever met and would talk to anyone who would listen.LOL and I tell you the guy was just as original as you and me. I have met several other singers and was once a good friend of Vin Diesel yeah yeah girls hold it down he's a hottie but not just for girls at that time if you know what I mean. but that is another story. A real true great guy all around.Lets see Tracey lawerence we went out to eat dinner together after a concert about 9 years ago just adored my daughter she was about 3 and could sing all his songs along with him at his concert and that is how we met. oh to many to talk about but maybe one day I will tell you all of them and the story behind it all... and to tell you the truth you may have inspired his song ya never know....
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
17 May 08
I want to hear the Vin Diesel story too! And then get out of this county so I can have a few stories too...
• United States
17 May 08
Yeah, foundmyangel, he was a really down to earth kind of guy back then - I have no idea about now, but I wouldn't think he's quite so down to earth as he was then, would you? Thanks for sharing your story too, darlin, it's a good one. But I want to hear more about the Vin Diesel thing, come on, tell! ANd tell the rest too,any time you feel like it, feel free.
• Australia
17 May 08
I haven't anything as exciting as that but I would have loved to visit Gracelands but I don't think I ever will. The closet I come to something like that is when I was a roadie for Johnny Young & The Strangers he is not known world wide but ended up on TV in a show called Johnny Youngs Talent Show. I have been a fan of Elvis since he first started singing and have all his songs, videos and belong to the Elvis Fan Club here Western Australia.
• United States
17 May 08
Ralphy, I've been an Elvis fan since I was a kid! I used to have his pictures plastered all over my bedroom walls - there was barely a blank space on those walls. I'd love to see Graceland too - if you ever get to this side of the world, you should make it a point to go there. I love knowing that you're such a fan of his, I think that rocks!
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
17 May 08
Wow, Nova, I've always enjoyed what you posted but now you have officially become my hero or idol or something. I've never been anywhere or met anybody. I have no grand adventures to share. The closest I've gotten to 'fame' was a 30 second informational spot on the local news when I was 13...aired at 5:45am and wandering about in the background of the same news station's "kid cast" when I was 11. As for that song, it's one of my favorites and from now on I will firmly believe that it is indeed about you.
• United States
19 May 08
Well Nova, I certainly got introduced to you at the right time it seems, LOL, Sparksofinsanity, had me check out your profile after she mentioned seeing you at the Derby. I am sooooooooooo jealous! I think Billy Joel is one of the sexiest performers around, and getting older has not changed that. I think you must have had a very interesting life, to say the least, can't wait to read more. Blessings Marilyn
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
19 May 08
I don't have any really cool stories. I was born in 1978 and led a pretty sheltered life. I loved hearing your story though and can't wait for you to share more! I will be 30 on the last day of the month. There is still time for something cool to happen. When it does, I will share it!
• United States
19 May 08
Hi, moneyandgc, nice to see you here! So you were born in 1978 huh? May 30 is your 30th birthday, wow! Happy Birthday, darlin!!! You're right, there's tons of time for something cool to happen and I'm sure it will, trust me. Keep your mind and your heart open. The year you were born was an incredible year for me, chock full of music, people and more fun than I can describe. Your time's coming, just wait and see. Be safe, and HAVE FUN, especially on your birthday! Love and kisses!
1 person likes this
• United States
17 May 08
I love that song, She's always a woman. My favorite line is "And she'll promise you more Than the Garden of Eden Then she'll carelessly cut you And laugh while you're bleedin"I started attending rock concerts when I was only 11, my first being Bon Jovi and Skidrow and then I upgraded to Kiss. I have a box full of guitar picks from those days that I collected while in the front of the pit at the shows I did attend. At one show in particular, Skidrow and Pantera I was in the very very front and I was getting crushed by the hundreds of people behind me pushing towards the stage. I motioned for the security guards to pull me out over the gate so I could get out of there but every time one would get a good hand hold on me the crowd would surge forward again and I would get doubled over. Sebastian Bach, Skidrows lead singer, stopped the show and said that everyone needed to take two steps back because there was a really "hot chick" getting her t!ts smashed out of her clothes in the front row. (yeah he was talking about me and it was funny cause I was only a B cup back then) and he wouldn't sing another song until everyone moved. The security guards got me out and he came down off the stage and escorted me to the back where I stood and watched the rest of the show. After it was over he gave me a white carnation and asked if I wanted to attend their party on their tour bus. I had to decline (I was only 13...lol and my mom was waiting for me outside the arena)but it has been my most memorable concert experience ever.
• United States
19 May 08
I love that song too and I don't know why I think he wrote it for me, really, but I do. We just connected. But not that way, nudge, nudge. See what a good girl I was back then? Ha! Times have changed! 13 years old and catching Sebastian Bach's attention like that, my my, the apple doesn't fall far from that tree, does it, darlin? That's my girl!! And only a B cup then, too! Listen darlin, you're a beautiful woman and no doubt you were a beautiful young girl. But a party on the tour bus, whoa, I'm so glad your mom was waiting!! What a memory, Cyn. And what a story to tell! Thanks for sharing, that was great.
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
17 May 08
Dear Nova..First thank you for writing one of your stories! This is such a wonderful story about something that most of us dreamed of and since i was having babies when you were the "Voice" then i can relive my secret longings through you as meeting these people i could only dream about! When i asked you to do this i really hoped you would and now i'm ready for more! So please if you aren't feeling pressured, continue giving me a blast from the past and make me feel Young and alive again! You are so lucky and I'm so jealous..LOL Thanks again!
• United States
17 May 08
Rosekitty, I'm so glad you enjoyed the story, thank you! Boy, talk about being in the right place at the right time - I SO was! I knew I was lucky - even then. And I was so young, my goodness, and in those days, I had an innocence that girls don't have anymore, so it made it all the more exciting, I think, for me. And I just loved the music so much, ya know? Still do. I'm such an old hippie. I'll tell you some more, I promise, very soon, ok?