What to do with troublemakers?

China
May 26, 2008 9:03pm CST
If you encounter troublemakers how will you do? How many ways do you have? How do you think and why?
3 responses
zeroflashx2
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
27 May 08
It's quite a bit hard to deal with them. If I do encounter one, I try my best to tolerate it as much as possible and let that person realize what he/she is doing and ask for a reason why. I always go for the subtle approach but when respect is no longer there and if it's already personal. I deal with it with maximum defense.
heartsoul
@heartsoul (311)
• China
27 May 08
Thanks for your sharing and I quite agree with your point of view. Communication first and if it doesn't work then defense will be following!
heartsoul
@heartsoul (311)
• China
27 May 08
I usually choose to keep silence as feedback to their behavior, and at last they give up! Maybe they just want to be attentive!
zeroflashx2
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
27 May 08
You're welcome. :) Although it's best to have them realize immediately, I've had more success on the defensive. :D well, I may just be lucky to encounter them.
gloreymay
@gloreymay (882)
• Philippines
27 May 08
Set limits and don't alow them to do watever they want which is not good. Trouble makers are attention seekers they always want to be the center of attraction. they have to be controlled.
heartsoul
@heartsoul (311)
• China
27 May 08
Thanks for your comment!Maybe silence will be the best solution and choice!
mjmlagat
@mjmlagat (3170)
• Philippines
27 May 08
If possible I really evade these kind of people. But just in case they're unavoidable, I deal with them with outmost diplomacy and kindness first. But if earns nothing positive, well I will give them a doze of their own medicine, so to speak.
heartsoul
@heartsoul (311)
• China
27 May 08
Thanks for your comment! You surely provided us a useful method to deal with these troublemakers. I once adopt the first choice to avoid them, but it ended in vain. At last I nerved myself and tried to cope with them the same way they treated me and it worked. I think to different people there should be different ways!