Tips on How to Get your Girl (Warning: a bit lengthy) Part I

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Ok, please note that these are all based from my experience and my own point of view. I hope these would be helpful to you guys. I'm single too, by the way, but I have my reasons for that. I also have proven these ideas and consulted some female friends about it. So.. here... Have fun reading. 1. "Swallow your pride and draw out every bit of courage you have." - I think that it is important to be humble at all times and throw away your pride when the situation calls for it. Girls wouldn't fall for guys who show off or someone who never admit his mistakes. Also, if you have something to say or do, say it. Don't hold it back if it really comes from the heart. If you are doing it out of sincerity and you really love the girl, then there is nothing wrong about saying what you truly feel. You'll look even more stupid if she sees how you try to hold back. They prefer guys who have the courage to stand for themselves. 2. "Sing for her" - yes, it is very effective. If she has a thing for you too, she'll appreciate it even if you sound like a frog croaking under the heavy rain. If you are just starting to get to know her or the other way around, presentation is the most important thing, not your voice. Be creative, think of something that would sweep her off her feet. Don't overdo it though, you don't want to make her feel humiliated or so. One should know his limitations and capabilities. Be brave. 3. "Greet her goodnight and good morning" - make this a habit. She'll eventually get used to it to the point that she feels a bit incomplete if you don't greet her for a single day. It is important to remind her that someone is actually thinking of her the moment she wakes up and before she sleeps. Whether it be a text message or call, it would be appreciated. This is a good way of making a mark. A call weighs more so make sure to call her once in a while to do so. Again, don't overdo it. 4."Spend time with her, go out - a date" - try to set up a date every once in a while. With her consent of course, if she doesn't want to, don't force her to do so. Try to ask her again some other time. Take her to a place where you can have quiet and quality time together. Talk to her, share your thoughts and listen to her. This is important: maintain eye contact... make sure you are really listening or paying attention when she has something to say. Maintain a good flow of conversation, fill in those gaps with comments or a few stories of your own. It is awkward when silence hits the atmosphere. Good luck. 5. "Walk/drive her home" - make sure to do this after going out with her. This is very basic. On certain cases, giving her a lift and driving her home is cool. Then again, focusing on your driving and maintaining a good conversation is something that not all guys can do. This is why walking is the best option for you. When you walk together, you have more time to chat and you can focus more on the conversation. Make sure to keep her away from the danger side of the road. And try to be protective at all times. Hold her hand, if it's ok with her. It is a good start in building up intimacy. I guess that would be all for now. Please feel free to discuss anything related about this here. I guess I've overdone it somehow? Hehe.