what can you do when your lover leave you?

What we never expect to happen can happen in the worst possible moment as William Shakespeare wrote in a sonnet. He said, "If thou wilt leave me, do not leave me last; when other petty griefs have done their spite, but in the onset come, so I can taste at first, the very worst of fortune's might. And other strains of woe which now seem woe, compared with loss of thee, will not seem so." When someone leaves you, then it hurts. She has left you only once yet you hurt all the time, why is that? It is simply because you relive the act of her leaving you in your mind, again and again. Obviously she hurt you once but you hurt yourself again and again by remembering the thing she did. You don't have the power to dictate her actions but you do have the power to control your mind and stop yourself from hurting some more. Use the force, Luke!

Well if its just that you are fighting and things were said in the heat of the moment I would wait a couple days then try to sort it out..IF however its DEFINATELY over, I would go through the "grieving" process (and yes there is one) then pick yourself up, dust yourself off and realize its not the end of the world...

I know you're in a difficult phase of your life right now. I know that it is a hard to really make your world move back to the way it used to be but the first thing to do is accept that it is over already and there's no other way but to move on with your life. You are still complete and you can still love and there are others that still loves you as you are. Don't despair as they will only lurk in your mind and heart.

Try to forget her.. By removing all her memories in ur ming and from ur room.

try to entertain yourself...so as not to always think about your lover. it won't be easy to move on if you keep thinking about her.

it was happen to me too. all i can say is just being strong in this situation and you will realize that life is just go like usual.