How Caring/ Helpful Are u.......?
By nupats
@nupats (3564)
India
June 10, 2008 6:13am CST
Once I was travelling in the bus and it was crowded so i did not get any seat there was this old lady who was also standing next to me.....a guy who was sitting offered me the seat and not the old lady i told him let aunty sit and he frowned...did i say something wrong? i mean it was good on his part to offer me a seat but why not the old lady she needed to sit more than me?..once our gang of friends two guys and two girls were travelling by bus an old man came i told one of the guys tht he is so old let him sit he said that it is a long distance he did not wanna stand and go ..the other guy did offer his seat to uncle...soon after a girl came in mini skirt and was standing this mean guy immediately stood and offered his seat to this pretty girl now he was happy standing..do men have double standards when it comes to women? are they gentlemen only if it is a pretty face?why are men like this..
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
11 Jun 08
hi
dear i dont want to comment on it, as i am male too
well i very rare travel in buss but if i do and i find old lady or uncle, i offer them seat. But honestly when i see some young girls even knowing their is no seat in the bus, enter then i might not be that gentle man
@nupats (3564)
• India
12 Jun 08
see u r a nice guy u believing in helping the needy actually and not just any girl who is pretty..i also belive in womens lib and do not expect any guy to stand and offer me a seat just bcoz i m a girl..tht wud seem dumb...bcoz one place we talk abt women liberalisation and on the other hand if we expect a special treatments then what the point..u r right dear help only if needed..have a nice day..
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
12 Jun 08
Thanks for encouraging my response
well women liberation is some thing differnt, it is that they should get equal rights, but no doubt they are delicare and fragile as well, so must be treated well and nicely, i offer seat to ladies either old or young. what irritates me the ladies who knowingly that no seat is available and its rush, embark on bus
anyway, ethics are ethics must be maintained
@celticeagle (189793)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Oct 08
He was trying to impress you, my dear. Men are not always gentlemen because it is the right thing to do. It is what they can get out of it. Men are instinctively this way. It is in their DNA. To reproduce and move toward the one female that looks the best to do this with. To continue our race. It only makes sense when you think of it in these terms. Life is just black and white sometimes with no grey areas.
