Is it just me?

I'm sure it isn't just you. Many young people seem to live lives filled with drama. Maybe it is your age that makes you so aware of it all. As an old guy I don't find much drama in my life. It might be there, but unless it concerns me personally, then I don't care. If it isn't my problem, I do not try to fix it :)

Few days back I was reading a book, key to mastermind by JOhn K Fennel, that said that there is a law of attraction,if you like drama in life than that is what you will attract towards you, so a large number of people do have dramatic lives.As far as I am concerned I always loved an active but peaceful life, so that is what I have.

Yeah, life is full of drama, each and every day, there is a new situation and new twists and turns. I just had a huge emotional flow as i just got rejected for a perfect job, i always wanted. Im still in that mood, i donno when i could succeed. Life is a challenge.,

In a previous response, you mentioned you should perhaps keep to yourself more as a way of reducing the drama in your life. I've read a number of your discussions (have not responded to all of them) and you come across as a very loving, caring, friendly person who likes to help others. Would you be able to realistically keep more to yourself? Years ago, I ran across a "labelling" concept that said people usually fall into a category of "rescuer" or "victim". I think there was a third category but it didn't really register. I just remember thinking, "Am I a rescuer? Am I a victim?" My answer was, "Both." What I have worked on doing was stopping being a victim. Took a while but I did it. The harder one was stopping being the rescuer. But ... I eventually realized that I could not help everybody. And, frankly, some of them didn't want help. They wanted to stay in their own personal "drama". BUT they wanted to rest of the world to hear about their drama. HEAR IT BUT DON'F FIX IT!!! So ... my long winded way of saying: Maybe you could continue to let them tell you their story, but let them keep their story without you expending your energy on trying to help them change their story. Then, when you come across the ones who do truly want to change their story, you can offer your helping hand to them.