Feeling so torn...

Sure the back biting and fighting going on does make MyLot a worse place to hang out. I don't have tons of offline friends since we moved here. Mylot friends help make me feel less lonely and when they are all embroiled in arguments it makes me sad! I took a break just after Christmas for similar reasons and when I came back the fighting was worse and I'd picked up a troll. So I figure this place will always be this way. I have to deal with it or leave. And I need the money too bad to leave.

I am loving it here but there again i am a newbie so I suppose have to see after i been here much longer lol Its certainly taken my time from msn.. Finding people here are very friendly helpful caring and polite and can make friends with the same interests as yourself.. Maybe you just need to take little break away.. how u feeling its normal.. cos thats how i been feeling with msn recently, just fedup and offff.. and not really understand the reason but cant be bothered to talk anyone there at moment..

I think we all have those days on myLot once in awhile. I have in the past and simply stayed away for a day and worked on a craft project. You might try giving yourself a break for a day and see how you feel tomorrow or the next day. We will still be here and welcome your discussions. About two weeks ago I was ready to call it quits on myLot. Was irritated with a tag placed on one of my discussions. Then decided it wasn't worth leaving just because I had a rotten tag placed on the discussion. The discussion itself was good, I thought.

I've been like that too this week. It's not Mylot or anything, it's just that I've been having a hard time breathing lately. Sometimes it doesn't seem worth it to get out of bed. I have to pump myself up and think greedily about the money I'm earning. On really bad days I just think about the cash.

Hey, I am still a newbie to Mylot, and I only hope to get as many posts as you and many other mylotters. I am inspired by those mylotters who have stuck around for the long haul. I guess I enjoy the earning potential but I mainly like the community and forums here. I think there will be times when the excitement of being here wears off then after a little while, you miss the forums and return to posting. I will probably feel what you are feeling soon. I guess I don't really have as much time as I'd like to devote to posting on here, so that can sometimes make me not want to bother logging on.

i am not yet there... too new, but I can see where it comes from. i was very active on 43things.com as I thought it was really fun and all, but after a while it became boring because it was the same old, same old over and over. might be here too.

Latoya...hang in there ok..you just have been seeing a bit of nastyness that should never have happened..it will blow over and run its course.. Guess after i felt lonely yesterday wanting to stay with my kids instead of working most mylotters went to defend what happened then have fun posting to others to cheer them up..me included..but i fel better today..my usually fun self..just ask Goodie..lol Huggs and laughter