You Would Think If You Told A Guy You Didn't Like Him...
@CallieWVU2 (520)
United States
July 10, 2008 2:31pm CST
You would think if you told a guy you didn't like him, AT all, that he would leave you alone right? I mean who wants to be around someone that doesn't like them right? But this guy, will not leave me alone, I go to this particular bar, just about everyday, sometimes I don't even drink, I just like the people who work there and I've gotten to be friends with them...well there is this guy, and I can't remember exactly what he said that irked me in the wrong way the first time I met him, but he said SOMETHING. And I have actually told him time and time again, that I DON'T like you, (as a person) and still he keeps on me. Well last night he came up to me again, offered to buy me a drink I said thanks, but no thanks. He kept pushing it, so I was like fine, and the bartender I know was telling me "Just use him" I mean I didn't even like the guy enough to "use" him, but anyway I decided to try and grin and bear it.
For the first fifteen minutes I didn't even keep eye contact with him, I was watching a baseball game, and he kept trying to talk to me asking me a million questions, when i told him I was trying to watch the game. But suddenly one of his topics sparked something up with me, I was telling him how I'd learned recently that Abraham Lincoln was believed to be part black, at least that's what i've heard, maybe it's just a rumor, I duno. And he's like "No...thats not how it is..." And decided to tell me how very wrong I was and that Lincoln was actually really a racist and everything else, and I'm thinking ok, I gave this a shot, when he got a phone call I got up and left and took my stuff to the other side of the bar. When he came back 20 minutes later he tried to make me jealous or something he was like "I was talking to my baby....sister." It's like dude, I don't care. Go away. I swear he's the kind of guy that would go into the Post Office and start randomly killing people, he's that creepy.
If you have an opinion on why guys can't get it through their heads why you don't like them, let me know.
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@anawar (2404)
• United States
10 Jul 08
Oh, that's just like a guy. Tell them you don't like them and they think you want them. Or worse, they decide you are a challenge and keep pestering you.
I had a similar problem, only not so intense. The bartender made the customer leave because the guy kept putting the moves on me, despite my denial of interest.
These guys are missing a few essential brain connections, making communication difficult.
Somehow, he is getting the message that you are interested.
Try "I keep trying to tell you I don't like you and I'm not interested in you. You don't seem to understand this. What makes you think I'm interested in you? What words can I use or what can I do to make you leave me alone?" Now, pause for a moment as if thinking, they say "You know, I had this problem once before and I had to call the cops to get this guy to leave me alone. In fact, I think I still have his business card. He told me to call him if I had any other problems with guys."
This guy must need your approval because he thinks so little of his own worth. Maybe he thinks if you like him, then he must be an okay guy.
If that doesn't work, maybe you really should call the cops!
@taface412 (3175)
• United States
13 Jul 08
I like that one Anawar...may use that in the future. HEHE
It's really sad if you think about it how these certain guys are....and maybe their friends should step up and tell them....like us girls do for each other....Would be nice wouldn't it.
@dreemsofdark (714)
• United States
10 Jul 08
some guys are very desperate, or some guys are trying to prove to themselves that they have what it takes. Also, guys think very differently from girls. If girls give guys so much of an inch of attention he thinks that she wants him, and that he's all that! Why? Because it's logic to them. Guys work on logic while girls work on emotions. A girl is just trying to be nice because she doesn't want to hurt his feelings, and the guy thinks that if he's getting any sort of attention, that it's good attention. So he's probably just really dense and full of himself.
@taface412 (3175)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I have no idea....the only thing you can say is he is persistent. I had a guy in college stalk me, trying to buy me a drink (actually carried it around all night at the bar) and then insulted my friend right in front of me and still tried to "impress" me. Their persistent losers who think if they keep trying they'll get a foot in the door....they have a lot of nerve.
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