what do you do when?

boom - atom bomb
United States
July 16, 2008 8:28pm CST
what do you do when you find yourself in a stand still. when there is no work, no jobs hiring- do you get up and leave and find a new thing to do? do you sit there and wait for something to fall into your lap? do you find yourself in a pickle often? how do you get out of your funk that you are in? what do you do when you are depressed? what do you do when you find out everything that you have worked so hard for is falling away like sand? you see i find myself in a pickle today. nothing seems to be going right with any of the sites i am signed up for. i could play it like it was a conspircy against just me- but i really dont think that is just me. i think maybe there is a time for everything in its right season. but how do you hold on to hope? i find that it is something that can be broken very easily. i just dont know what to do any more. how do i go on the same way? i find often that if something breaks it just wasnt ment to be. i just dont know anymore. so what do you do?
3 responses
@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
17 Jul 08
When I was in high school I couldn't even get a job at McDonald's. No one would give me a chance. So I left. Now every business is hiring including mine. I've had financial ups and downs in my life. I think it builds character. However I am on an incline at the moment and hopefully will not experience another financial down. If you need money, then take what ever work you can get. Always take pride in your work and do your best. If you wait for it to happen it will not. You have to make it happen. About 10 years ago I decided I was going to do what I wanted to do. I didn't care about the money. I wanted to be happy going to work. So I got a job doing what I loved. Now I own a company and in control of my income.
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
Wow, that's great! I've been wanting to be self-sufficient in life for more than a decade now, not only for myself but for my own family as well. How did you do that? Anyway, I'm still not giving up on my personal dreams and the plans my husband and I created together. In God's time and with His guidance and help, I believe all our wonderful dreams will become a reality.
@coolseeds (3919)
• United States
17 Jul 08
I found something I liked to do that people will pay me to do. It sounds simple but it wasn't. Finding what I wanted to do took me a long time. I am still not where I want to be. Now I own a landscaping company but my goal is a nursery. I want to buy some acres or an old farm and become self sufficient. This is where I will start the nursery. Lack of property limits what I can do.
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
Well, I could say that in a way, I'm in a stand still, too, at the moment. Though I have a job and am working with a private corporation for almost four years now, my salary isn't enough to shoulder all the bills and other agenda my husband and I are planning to do. I'm the only one working for the family because my husband has no job at present. In fact, we still have a substantial amount outstanding on our credit card bills and loans from government and private institutions. To add up, the company is currently facing a financial crisis and is planning to close shop until the end of this year. I can't do anything but try as hard as I could to pay all bills (rent, water, electricity), and provide meals for me, my husband, and our daughter who is turning three next month. Honestly, we even have no funds set aside for the services of a nanny so we both decided that he will take care of our daughter and be with her in the rented house while I go to work during weekdays. Aside from this, I try to manage my time and squeeze earning online. Payout may not be fast but it sure could help us in the future. We do have a lot of plans but without capital or sufficient funds, we can't possibly carry them all out. More than a couple of months ago, my husband and I decided that either he or I will try working abroad, preferably in another Asian country so it will still be near to our country. Two weeks ago, we started processing our documents and passport using the money I borrowed from my officemates. But we weren't able to accomplish everything as the cash we have in hand isn't sufficient to cover all the expenses. Until we will be given our separation pay, I guess this will do for now. Much patience and tightening of the belt is really required in times like these. Hopefully, God is already sending help on the way.
@playapal (894)
• United States
27 Feb 09
Hi mykmari, I just read what you wrote 8 months ago. It really touched my heart and I just wanted to let you know that I hope things are working out for you and your family. Things are so tough in this world these days. All we can do is work as hard as possible, love our families and keep the faith. Thinking of you from Mexico.
• United States
17 Jul 08
it is very hard. you fill out applications. you hope and pray to God to help and guide you. you try to watch your spending and try to wait and hold yourself together. no knowing is hard. you are not alone in this situation. but try to relax because it is best for your health. when you've done all that you can do try to find things to occupy your thoughts. find things to do, it is best to keep busy. and hope for the best.