My Mom
By Kat4676
@Kat4676 (474)
United States
July 21, 2008 12:36pm CST
I love my mom dearly but, she calls at least every hour of every day and she only live 2 blocks away. And I think her health issues are why.
Last June she had a Medtronic Pacemaker Defribulator put in and now it is on recall. To top it all off, they put it in wrong! She has had an attorney for almost a year now on this but, we still have heard no news. This Friday the 25th she goes in to have the pocket placement done correctly and what none of us understand is that it is the same Dr that originally put it in. I don't feel this is right but, they won't send her anywhere else for it.
The first problem they had was the 3rd wire puncturing her heart so that one was not put in and then not telling her what the side effects would be. She thought it was normal for it to be hot on and off. She has been in and out of the hospital ever since now and it is a very large concern for all of us.
1 response
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
21 Jul 08
The same guy shouldn't work on it again. Let's have the guy remedy the situation and destroy the evidence of something else he may have done wrong! How come she had to deal with that guy again? That is just irrational for all parties involved. He shouldn't touch her again, ever! He is involved in litigation with her. And yes, unfortunately that can drag out for years.
I would be fearful, too. She should have the pacemaker replaced or repaired, depending on what the recall was for. Especially since they have to go and fix things anyway.
Your mother has rights. She needs to see another doctor and have the procedure done by that doctor.
Now, what has the attorney been doing? The hospital should be eager to settle this case and get it out of the way. They, too, should not want this guy working on her again. Something is definitely not right there.
I can fully understand your mom's fears. Something seems fishy and I think she is sending out cries for help. Maybe she finds she cannot be assertive enough herself to get what she wants, especially another doctor. I think she needs somebody who will say "Stop. You have other options, let's go to another doctor/hospital." Somebody, who literally drags her there. And I think she is relying on you. Believe it or not, sometimes parents feel helpful like children, and then, yes, the child they raised has to take over, and comfort and guide.
Go help you mom. Figure out the options and definitely get her to another doctor/hospital!
@Kat4676 (474)
• United States
21 Jul 08
Thank you. I tried for a few weeks to get her to call her Attorney and I just told her what you said about her trying to cover up something else she may have done wrong. I am now waiting for my mom to call me back and let me know what her Attorneys will say.
I think that all it took was to hear that it was also stated by someone else and not just myself and our family.
Thank you so much again!


