Isn't it just horrible?

New Zealand
July 25, 2008 4:35am CST
This may seem weird, a guy making a discussion in this topic, but anyway. Today my girlfriend and I broke up. Well, she broke up with me. It wasn't even in person, though. Yesterday she sent me a message on Bebo, saying it wasn't working out. I didn't get the message until late today. Word had spread all around my form class before I found out last period today. All day I had to endure this, and I just tried to just avoid the people, ignore the questions, because I had no idea what it all was about. To make things worse, she didn't even tell me what the actual reason was! In the message, her reason was that it was just too awkward. But it isn't that. She broke up with me for another guy. The guy who is an absolute loser, who has liked her for ages, the same guy I told me girlfriend (before we were going out) how he liked her. She broke up with me for him, and won't even admit it! God, I just feel like crap.
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7 responses
@valeria1 (2723)
• United States
25 Jul 08
Just do not worry is a woman in every corner! Another thing women is like a bus after one come another one! Just do not care much go out with your friends, drink, dance, have fun and just forget the Mrs. B...!
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• New Zealand
25 Jul 08
You're all so kind. Thank you.
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@super_jj (1417)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
That's awful. I had my heart broken too 6 months ago. Whew! i's really hard moving on especially if there was no particular reason given to you. I feel bad for you,man. Dont worry, though, i'm sure you'll find someone who'll treat you better.
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@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
She is horrible. She should have the courage to admit it in your face. Anyways, girls like her is not worth your time. Cheer up. There's lot's of fishes in the sea.
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@nupats (3564)
• India
25 Jul 08
hi dear dont be so sad such things happen in life..and there is nothing weird like girls guys also have feeling and emotions...she did a horrible thing by acting this way...anyway if the guy is a looser she will realize sooner or later and might wanna come back then you can tell her no thank you..maybe she was not right for you and you might get someone better...take care and be strong dont let this upset you..have a nice day..
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@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
25 Jul 08
I'm afraid some women are like that, mind you.. so are men. The best thing to do is to try and move on... at the end of the day, she wasn't loyal to you etc, so why give a damn about her eh? It was pretty low of her to send you a message on bebo about it, ill agree. The most pathetic thing you can do is break up with someone by messaging them rather then to their face. Also the reason- she should have just told you. At the end of the day you cant help who you fall in love with, and maybe she just wasnt right for you... I hope you feel better soon... Cheer up :)
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@donsky14 (5962)
• Philippines
25 Jul 08
Don't feel bad dude..I mean, she's not worth it. There are lots of other girls out there who would treat you better than her. Cheer up.
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@magojordan (3254)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
Don't feel to bad just remember it's her lost not yours/ If she chose the absolute loser then really it's not your lost. I'm sure you could find someone better, someone who will love you wholeheartedly.