would you rather go to bed angry or not?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
July 28, 2008 5:09pm CST
with me whenever i do get into a fight with her during the day i always try and make up for it or try and resolve it before we go to bed because i don't know if its just me or if its everyone but i just don't like going to bed angry with anyone because i can't sleep that good because i lay there and think about it and what might have been done differently to avoid the fight...i don't honestly think that its just me because i have heard of other people that don't like to go to bed mad either, some guys say that they'd just rather avoid it all so they don't go to bed mad at each other...so what about all of you would you rather just go to bed angry and let it all wear off of you or not go to bed angry? i hope that you all are having a great day and thanks for taking the time to read my discussion and i hope that you all have a great day!
4 responses
@philjas (1134)
• United States
28 Jul 08
I've never believed in the "never go to bed angry" idea. I'd hate to lose sleep and start getting even more agitated and angry because of it from trying to stay up settling an argument! I/we just go to bed angry and sleep it off. Usually in the morning it all seems silly (assuming it was something not that terribly important in the first place), and we're not angry anymore.
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
28 Jul 08
I agree with you, if we tried to settle the disagreement, it could escalate into something even bigger. I just go to bed, and give him a chance to think about things, and if it works out by morning that's good, if not it soon will.
I used to not be able to go to sleep, but now I can sleep even if I went to bed upset.
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
12 Aug 08
Hello dear jhl. It is not what I want to, but sometimes it is up to the spouse's mood. I mean I am not that kind of person that gets angry as I am gentle. I always try to resolve the problem between us before going to bed though it is not always that easy. Great day to you as well, dear friend.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
28 Jul 08
I don't like to go to bed angry. I would rather solve the dispute or whatever before we go to bed at night. What is the use in going to bed angry? I wouldn't want to do it.
@crunkyjens (463)
• United States
29 Jul 08
I hate going to bed mad at my boyfriend. If I can avoid it I will try at all costs. Sometimes that means just coming to an understanding for the night and talking about what happened in the morning. You never know what's going to happen at any given moment, especially after you go to sleep, who knows if you will wake up? So I always like to make sure we are ok, we tell each other that we love one another and we will figure things out in the morning.
