Does you partner need to know your past relationship/s ...?? WHY?
By cecelgay
@cecelgay (563)
Philippines
August 1, 2008 12:46am CST
Before for me it does'nt matter coz i dont care about his past, what i care is our present relationship but my views change... when my partner judge me and accuse me that i've been not untrue to him becuase he found out something about my previous boyfriend. He said he feel cheated coz i did not tell it to him.
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4 responses
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
Hi cecelgay, well, I told my boyfriend about my past relationship before him but actually I never tell him all of the past relationships that I had. It's not about honesty but I just want to closed those past things that happened to my life. And I don't want a comparison either. Some guys are very sensitive with it comes to their girlfriends past, and It's hard to argue with them. And I don't even ask him about his past too to be fair and prevent us from having problems and arguements.Thanks for the post!
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
1 Aug 08
Well yes it's true that what matters is the present but letting your partner know about your past is part of being honest to your partner and in a relationship honesty is really important. It's good that couples should be open with each other about their past relationships and in that way you and your partner could appreciate more each other 
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
1 Aug 08
Letting your partner know about your past is almost like a "letting go" phase wherein you talk to your partner about your past relationships and how you feel about them and he does the same for you. I don't think you should talk to terribly much about it as not to make him jealous but the best policy is honesty, especially from the start of a relationship.
I hope that your partner does not stay to bad at you for long but if you are hiding something you should tell him - for both your sakes. Good luck to you and well wishes! Have a wonderful day!



