problem
By riyasam
@riyasam (16556)
India
August 10, 2008 5:40am CST
i have a very good friend .he is from a different state so we have never met.but of late he is trying to avoid me.he is in a depressed state right now.he recently lost his job and things are not so fine at the home also.what do i do in such a situation(i really do care for him)
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5 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
10 Aug 08
Well the first thing that popped into my mind was for you to send him money, I am not sure of how well the two of you are acquainted but if you have extra money it might help him at least to buy a meal for his family. I know that a lot of people are stubborn against anyone who wishes to give them money but let him know that you are not doing it out of pity for him losing his job but so that he may provide for his family and that it may help mend whatever is going on in his home. If you can not do that then buy him a gift not only he but his family can enjoy. Maybe teas or fruits. I hope that you have a very wonderful and lovely day.
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
10 Aug 08
Oh well, I suppose it is the thought that counts. I can understand not wanting to ask your husband to part with his money. I hope that you can console your friend though and that you yourself will begin to earn more. Have a wonderful day.

@sharie16 (2212)
• Philippines
10 Aug 08
well just keep on talking to him, even sending quotes to brighten his day, few words of wisdom...you just have to let him feel that no matter what, even if he tries to avoid you, you are there for him...or maybe you just thought he is avoiding you, but maybe he was just too depressed and feels like dying inside but he doesn't know who and where can he turn too..maybe he was just waiting the right time that he can totally open up with you...let him feel that you are a friend no matter what...
Goodluck!
@ajesh_pullad (2251)
• India
14 Aug 08
Hi riya, we need to help our friend in trouble, if we are True friend.if he still accepts you as his best friend, he will tell all his problems. But he think that you can't help him or he doesn't want to worry you.u have a family just take care them.thanks
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
13 Aug 08
Hi riyasam,
I guess as a true and real friend, you can extend your help in any ways...Your presence if possible, financial help or just call him everyday to motivate him that life has always hope when we believed...He is just shock maybe and for sure he will just recover and start looking for another job to start again!





@Ganesh44 (5547)
• India
10 Aug 08
Ohh
Just tell him that loosing job is something that can happen to anybody....so dont loose heart....GOD is there to fix everything....GOD is very great....even you are also intelligent....say him like that ....just encourage him.....
Thanku
Ganesh







