Don't Want Her Around

@lisa0351 (303)
United States
August 11, 2008 12:52pm CST
I guess I just need some opinions on a really bad situation. My husband has a cousin that just got a new girlfriend. This girlfriend is a known drug user, and has been a trouble maker for years. His family doesn't even like her, and is afraid to have her around. They have been dating for two weeks, and he picks her up and she stays at his house all weekend. Well, her supposed ex boyfriend who lives about an hour away found out where he lives, and keyed and destroyed his car....well, later we found out that she told him where he lived. Sounds fishy, huh? She has 3 kids, and seems like a user. Something just doesn't seem right, plus shes really really filthy dirty. His cousin comes over to our house all the time, and I don't want her here. She seems like the type that would steal, and has been in trouble with the law. Am I wrong for not giving her a chance? Normally, I'm a very fair person, but the track record with her just doesn't add up. I don't want to risk her stealing something, plus I just don't want her here. What do you think?
1 response
@babykeka80 (2084)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Use your instincts. If something is telling you not to have her around then it is probably correct. It is your home and you do have a say in who comes around your house. If you feel that strongly I would let my husband know and make sure he lets his cousin know. I wouldnt trust her either if she is a known trouble maker. People in general do not change over night. Hopefully hubby's cousin will wise up soon but until then I just wouldnt have any part in it.
@lisa0351 (303)
• United States
11 Aug 08
Thats really how this has been, I just have a really bad gut feeling. I talked to my husband about it, and he doesn't want to say anything. But I think in a situation like this, you can't stay silent. Hes afraid of making his cousin mad, but at this point I really don't care. I am going to say something, only because she is scaring me to an extent.