frustrations

United States
August 16, 2008 9:55pm CST
I was just wondering if anyone else goes through the frustrations of having a partner that makes you feel like you did something wrong. My example: Both my child and him were sleeping tonight and he woke up all crabby because dinner wasnt already done. I planned on making dinner when they woke up so I didnt make something and then them not wake up tonight.
3 responses
• Malaysia
19 Aug 08
i guess it is normal for man to behave like that .. last night my husband was angry with me because i did not want to help him with his homework .. he is going back to finish his studies ... he should be the one to do it, why involve me ... i just got home from work .. did some house work and was tired ... what i know is to ignore him ...and his swinging mood as he wants to blame someone and i am the victim .. i am used to his atitute and have adapted my life well with him .. i just let him be angry .. i don allow that to spoil my day ..
• United States
20 Aug 08
I dont let it spoil my day either ... when it happens though I am so angry!!!
@grammasnook (1877)
• United States
17 Aug 08
You did nothing wrong as a matter of fact if that was me I would cook something for my son and let him fend for himself. My thought in life I do not have the right to ruin someones day with a nasty attitude so therefore he has no right to ruin my day with his nasty attitude. My husband caught on real early in life. I am his wife his partner in life we share everything.... I am not his mother.
• United States
17 Aug 08
thats how I felt tonight when he did that I did a breathing exercise that calmed me down though but it really upset me!
• United States
17 Aug 08
Yes that would frustrate me very badly i would deal with that personally, i would end up breaking up with him for that... It sounds to me as though he is very impatient... Thats not good for a relationship...