Too Cautious, Too Dangerous
By lloydbelleza
@lloydbelleza (1227)
Philippines
August 26, 2008 11:24am CST
I was warned by some friends and even a professor that my being too cautious would be not good for me. I was alarmed. I thought I am doing well. I thought I am shaping myself to be "perfect" in the things I do. I over think. I over reflect. That's the danger comes in. I have been to conscious of what is the right thing to do, of what is going to happen if i do this and that, of what will be the future. I tend to forget how to seize the day, how to enjoy the moment I have now, and how to appreciate the present. I even limit myself to experience lots of things. Too cautious... I guess I should not be like that. To learn is to experience. Trying to be perfect would not help me to be the best person that I can be. Or maybe it will. But it won't really make me an interesting person.
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
26 Aug 08
[i]I agree with that lloyd, You will miss a lot in life! Too much is always not good! Just loose it and do not deprive yourself!
Exploring life as long as we know we are not doing the bad things is always wonderful! Every chapter of our life has an end, we will never have it back and only the memories and lesson will remain! SO, have fun, be careful of course and treat yourself![/i]





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@lloydbelleza (1227)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
Thank you not only for the wonderful insights but for the continued support to my discussions started. 



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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
28 Aug 08
No problem..I love most of your topic, I can relate!LOL! ENjoy posting!


@mommamusic (882)
• United States
26 Aug 08
Hello, my friend there is not any thing wrong with wanting to be perfect.But no one is perfect.It is good to be cautious this day and time,but you also need to relax, and enjoy each day for what it brings into your life.Some times we have to go out and take a chance on the unexpected.You can you will always be the same great person you are.You some times meet people who bring a different,out look on life and how to enjoy it.You are ok and you always be.




I think I deserve it.