A Public Apology

I am not able to understand what you want to express. if possible please elobrate

I try to save my apologees for being an idiot for private times lol. No I seriously understand where you are coming from. I hope it all settles down for you and hopefully tomorrow someone else will be the "idiot" of the day and everyone wil forget about all this uproar. Does this mean you are staying on mylot?

I don't recall apologizing publicly for being an idiot, although it is possible. I have been through lots of online drama through the years. Not here though Don't know who you upset, but I hope they accept your apology and move on. This is not real life, just a place to hang out and have fun. I hope they remember that part too

Oh! Mike your such a sweet guy! I know that you just want to come here and have fun! We all do! I am not sure what uproar was all about! But I am glad to see that you have several very good friends here that stick by your side. True friendship is priceless! Now can we start talking about how your Alien again.. LOL that was funny...

It's been getting alot of people that i really like on here down recently and thats such a sad thing. I think i said it one of the posts i have enough crap to deal with in life - this is a fantastic escape from all that or thats what it should be. I'm glad your staying I think loosing you considering what an active member you are and the quality of which you contribute to this site would have been a sad loss for all. It takes a very mature person to hold their hands up and say sorry as oppose to pretending it didn't happen and hoping it doesn't get mentioned and eventually swept under the carpet. I haven't ever had to publically apologise but i have learned as i've got older to think before i speak and not automatically say whatever comes into my head. To not get involved and that people do not always want to hear the truth. Glad you decided to stay hun looking forward to your future discussions!

Some of those here I don't care about one bit, and they know who they are. I am wondering if I fall inside this category because whenever I wrote in your discussions there are no answer from you but others above and below get a response. So can you mykij999 tell me if I fall inside this category. Kerry

I don't think I have ever had to publicly apologize, at least not yet! :) Hopefully not anytime soon either. I wasn't here and don't know what happened but I'm friends with all that I think are involved and I'm going with that. But it's big of you to apologize, and I'm here for you if you need anything. We are, after all in the same state, though I have no clue where the heck your city is. LOL :)

glade to see that you are staying,dont let those people bother you.

I have, and it made me a better person. Humbling yourself will garner more respect than sympathy. Glad to have you back.

I have apologized to people for things I wasn't proud of. However I don't remember if I ever made a public apology. I will say that it takes a brave person to admit that they needed to apologize. You seem like a good man. Remember that life goes on and now you can continue on myLot with a different approach. You still have your opinions though and we all do. We come here to correspond and make a little money.

I am so glad that you reconsidered and decided to stay! You would have been missed greatly! Just forget what happened, ignore the jerks and keep posting your good discussions. Your real friends will take care of the rest! I had to apologize at work a few years ago for freaking out. Everyone was just really nice about it and forgave me right away. They all knew that I was hormonal anyway.

That is great, now we can all enjoy it here. Glad that you really reconsidered, though,i am one of those you really don't know but we are friends in here now. I enjoy it here in mylot and i like responding to your discussions, that is if i have something to say. Otherwise, i just read on. A nice day ahead!

Well I for one don't accept your apology!!! You had me all in an uproar, thinking I was about to lose another one of my best friends here. I'm going to follow you and rate every last comment you ever post negative ahhahahah!!!! ....You know I'm just playing, right lol? MyLot can be a great place; hopefully it will stay that way. Remember, its people like us that keep what little greatness that you can find here. Those of us that rage against the machine of conformist trolls that fight any opinion that is not their own. If we were all to bow to their "Star" Wars as someone called it, and leave, there would be nothing left but them. They would win. Now, as crazy as we are we can't have that, can we? And to answer your question, yes I have had to publicly apologize, on National TV no less. I have been on the Maury Show a total of four times. The initial show was a paternity test for a doubting baby daddy, not me because I knew who I had been with. The two following that were updates on how the family was doing. The last show I was on was for a woman from his past, who said she also had a baby by him. The child was at the time seven years old. Being back with this man, I believed wholeheartedly in what he said. That the timing didn't add up, that he was in jail when she got pregnant. That she even told him the child wasn't his. So when we went on the show, I stood by him and bad mouthed this woman. I didn't say anything directed towards her, I just said that she was a liar and just wanted to be on TV because she saw our show. Plus the child looked nothing like him. But I was in for a shock, it turned out that he was the father of that child. Instead of just running off stage in shame, I did what a stand-up woman would do. I apologized to her for what I said... then I ran off stage to cuss him out, then I tried to find an exit off the set! (I swear they have the set feng-shui'ed so you always come to the couch area!!!)

In the words of the Dixie Chicks: "Forgive, sounds good Forget, I'm not sure I could They say time heals everything But I'm still waiting I'm through with doubt There's nothing left for me to figure out I've paid a price And I'll keep paying I'm not ready to make nice I'm not ready to back down I'm still mad as hell and I don't have time to go round and round and round It's too late to make it right I probably wouldn't if I could 'Cause I'm mad as hell Can't bring myself to do what it is you think I should" Some apologies hold no weight anymore. I'm sure you feel the same. Or at least that's what this post sounds like. JMO and everyone's entitled to that right? Didn't think so.*sigh*

Myklj999, I think you are a very smart guy and seems people love your more than hate you. I have many friends that are your friends and they are very good people to be hurt! I could see many of them very upset for your decision of leaving! Keep your good friends and select the ones that truly are good people. I accept your public apology if you offer me friendship, hahahahaha! Checkmate! Glad you are back!

Hmm...I am not a very frequent user of Mylot so I'm afraid I do not understand the full details- who you pissed off, how, why, what et cetera, but I just wanted to say that I think it's a courageous and humble move to apologize publicly like this. Indeed, I have found that my true friends are those who are not afraid to whack me up down left right and center when I'm acting like a biatch/idiot and that a public and sincere apology is always healthy and repairs many bridges. I hope it has been the same for you. Take care!

I just did then! I post the same discussion accidently and I feel so bad for being such an Idiot.... And I dont know how to deleted, but I guess I've learned from that.

acceptance and making the move to apologize is the coolest thing you had done here and i admire you for that!!well in my case no..i havent done anything foolish yetbut if i do surely i will do as what you done here..

i have not done it yet..public apology is quit a tough one...hands up for you to have this public apology...

I can't say that I have, but not sure if I've ever been in the position to. You are a big and real man to own up to your faults. I comend you for that. I hope we can all keep this the great place it should be. Thanks for doing your part:) and keep it up. btw your new avitar kinda creeps me out...like someone is spying on me....