do you think its good to have things in common

@jhl930 (3605)
United States
September 2, 2008 9:13pm CST
i have always thought that it was honestly, but then on the other hand i heard someone say today that its not good to have everything in common...i ask what they meant and they said that it was good to have some things in common because that gives you something to do and something to talk about, and then he said that if you have too much in common then you will not have enough alone time because you will want to do the things you have in common together, and i started to think about it and i want your opinion, do you think that its good to have a lot in common...thanks for taking the time out of your day to read my discussion and i hope that you will reply...i really hope that you all had a great day and that your night is good as well, again thanks for taking the time to read my discussion.
2 responses
• United States
3 Sep 08
I kind of agree with your friend. Its very important to have things in common, otherwise what would you talk about or do if you didn't like similar things? But its nice to have some stuff to yourself, and let the other person have their own personal stuff as well. This allows you to keep your individuality, which I think is very important.
@jhl930 (3605)
• United States
3 Sep 08
i agree too i think that we all need to have a little time to ourselves and i think that things will work themselves out as far as things in common falling into place, thanks for replying!
@williamjisir (22900)
• China
3 Sep 08
Hello jhl. I think that it is good to have something in common on my side because it will be easier for both to to share the same idea. My wife and I have something in common when we watch TV programs, but we don't have something in common when we listen to music, especially when I listen to old songs. She prefers more of the latest popular song though it takes me some time to get to love it. But anyway it is not a big deal for the difference between us. Thank you for your discussion. Good day.