When you say IT IS OVER do you really mean it???

honestly? i just tell myself its over then its painful enough and i take it back because even how much i tell myself its over i keep on wishing and hoping it'll work out still and that maybe, just maybe we just need space even if its very clear to see it got no chance anymore......maybe because we've been on and off for years and when we thought its over we get back again but somehow things gotten different and it seems like it is indeed over...but the heart wont stop hoping

well we say a lot of things out angry sometimes we mean and sometimes we dont.

i mean what i say and i say what i mean !

I get exactly from what you are coming from, It is true when one is upset all these negative thoughts come into ones head and then they come around apologize get on their knees and then you forgive them. I experienced the same situation many times and after dealing with the same for about five years and a half and a daughter I finally have come to my senses and refuse to make a life with him now because of everything he had done to me and the way he acted when I was pregnant. All I can say is that I do not not what the future holds but am putting my foot down and saying no to him

Hey.. how are.. by the way, this is a very nice topic. When I am into a relationship as much as possible i tried to understand every mistakes that she has... I always tried my best to keep it going... So when I say IT's Over.. I really mean because that is the time that the water spills on the glass' rim. I didnt easily says something that I will regret at the end.

sometimes when we say it, it's not that really true that its over it's just our ego and pride. guys and girls are equal when it comes to feelings its just that guys dont tend to show much of emotions cause for us or for other guys its a sign of weakness.

sometimes i also say it's over to my hubby when i am really angry with him but i know i don't really mean it. it's easily said than done. relationship can't be easily over as we wish. i think for most people if they can find any hope of recovery in their relationship, they won't put an end to it.

I don't mean it. I don't really say it's over when it's over. I would justleave. I hate saying goodbye. Whenever I break up with a guy, I would write it on a letter. Then won't show myself up forever. But with my last boyfriend,he won't let go. Until I lost the courage to call it quits. Now,God controlled the situation, and there's no turning back now. He has given my wish in an unpleasant way. Now I have to start all over again.

well i should say that i have used this word once!! when i had a serious fight with my friend!! and i decided not to speak to her forever!!! and that when i said!! its all over!! there is no use talking ans asking for sorry!

Saying its over is hard to do, for some people it will take years and for others months. But for me when i say its over it means moving on with my life without clinging on the past. At first it is hard but i see to it that i stick to my decision.Whenever a relationship turns sour already and you have done your best to save it, yet your best wasn't enough then theres no reason for you to stay on the relationship. The moment you made a decision and you finally decided to let go and start a new life without that person you have to be firm and brave enough to fight with what you feel deep inside. Sometimes when you feel sadness and your longing for that person you wish of having them back again. For me it takes courage to let go specially when you know how painful it is to let go and live a life without that person. But somehow i manage to control my feelings everytime i recall all the fights and pain i felt when we are still together. Then i realized it is time for me to love myself first before i give love towards other people. Then thats the time i start to divert my attention on productive things that will make me forget even just for a moment the breakup. It might takes years but if you really are willing to start a new life again you can move on eventually. It might takes time but for sure you will learn to accept reality sooner or later.