Have you done it with a friend?
By markroderick
@markroderick (887)
Philippines
September 5, 2008 5:10pm CST
I do but it's not that we have gotten into steamy thing, but it's closer than that just making out. But after that a lot of things really changes between me and my girl friend, we talked but it seems that we had a gap already. I just cant really describe how i feel and how will i say it to her. Got any experiences too? guys have you had any experience bedding your friend? how do you feel after you make love?
3 responses
@nickventere (1420)
• Zambia
7 Sep 08
I have done it before and I love the mutuality of it because there is not that very strong obligation or accountability to each other. You move on, and may do it again when you call upon each other.
@abigailcherry (92)
• United States
5 Sep 08
I have definitely had friendships in the past that eventually moved into that grey area where you aren't sure if you are lovers or friends. Usually once a certain line is crossed, it is very difficult to go back to the way things used to be. It can be easy to get wrapped up in worry and start to stress out about it. My advice would be to not let it become like you are playing games with each other. The best thing to do in this situation is to just talk openly about it and really listen to what she is saying. If you are feeling awkward around her and getting the vibe that she does not want to be around you or is uncomfortable, maybe you should just give it some time and stay away for a while. However, if you are hoping to be in a relationship with her that goes beyond friendship, this might be your only chance to really tell her how you feel.
