can you help me out? i can't get over...
By cautionhot01
@cautionhot01 (418)
Philippines
September 9, 2008 12:30pm CST
it's been a year since my ex bf and I broke up.. he dumped me for another girl. And because we are both studying in both school and the girl he replaced me with is also studying in our school, I see them both often. I am still in pain when I see them. I feel hurt even though it's been a year already.
I have a boyfriend now. And i did not tell this to him because I know he'll just be upset that up to now i feel this way.
This is exactly the day that he left me. And a lot of things today make me still remind me of him. Like I saw the last movie we saw in the t.v. today. I saw our pictures with his family in my cabinet while I was cleaning.
It's hard for me to move on. I don't know what to do. Please advice me what should I do? Do you experience such a thing? What did you do?
Thanks in advance.
2 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
9 Sep 08
It will take time to get over someone you have been with for a while. It is even harder when you see him a lot. The fact is you have someone wonderful now. Yes it may still hurt that this guy broke up with you, but it's only fair to your current man to focus on him and his love for you. I still think about my ex and I have actually talked about him with my current. It helps to get over him and deal with the feelings I was left with and he talks about his ex.
@cautionhot01 (418)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
i'm afraid that if i'll tell my current bf about what i'm feeling right now, he'll be angry at me. Or he'll be disappointed with what's his doing with the relationship. He might think that he had not given his best.
I'm also afraid of what might his reaction will be.
@MrsRich723 (602)
• United States
9 Sep 08
A few yeara ago my boyfriend not only dumped me for someone else but he married them. It was terrible because I was still close with the family and I would see pictures of them together and sometimes they would come over when I was there. Very painful. But as time went on I got another boyfriend but I would still think about my ex a lot. People would tell me to move on and forget about him but when you truly love someone it's not easy just to let it go. I wish there was something I did that made the pain go away but the truth it time helped me, that and prayer. I prayed A LOT and asked God to help me through it and as time went on it got better and better and now it's my past. What I wouldn't do if I were you is tell your current boyfriend how you feel about your ex-boyfriend. Some things are better left unsaid. Just give it some time and it will definitely get better.
@cautionhot01 (418)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
We are almost in the same situation. Thanks for the advice. I hope this shall pass. I'm really bothered. Sometimes, I feel i'm still in love with my ex. Sometimes, I want to call him without no apparent reason. I think I need more time to move on. A year isn't enough for me to let go of the feelings.. =
