He is more of a thinker...

[i]Hi Bebs, wow..he must be very busy and he thinks a lot! ANyway, I haven't tried that hubby didn't forget so far, LOL! But, when I am upset, I prefer not to say anything when he leaves! LOL! bad me! I have just a lot of pride, I know it's not good and maybe we are just matched because he is always there to understand my "craziness" LOL! Maybe you need to post yourself in the door before he left so that he will see you and will never forget your goodbye kiss! LOL![/i]

Whew! I am glad I haven't experienced that..YET..hehe. There was the time I was upset because i fell asleep in the bed alone and he slept in the other room. What i did is, I locked the door coz if ever he wokes up and decided to sleep beside me he can't come in. But he did not. In the morning, it was time for him to go to work. He knocked on the door several times. I was inside our room and ignored him. He didn't leave until I opened the door. He came close to me and gave a big squeeze of hugs and countless kisses while laughing and asked me "why did you lock the door?". hahaha. I realized, no matter what happened he wont leave without giving me a kiss, saying goodbye to me and he loves me. No matter how late he will be. That made me feel really great and important. Especially when he comes home from work he would grab and do and say the same thing except for goodbye...hehehe.

You'd be amazed at the things I forget. So maybe he's forgetting too or perhaps he's in a real rush to go and get there in time for something. You're not going to know unless he tells you the truth. And that won't come with the silent treatment.

Us guys get busy thinking about other things as your title suggests. We do think about you during the day though, and not just when we're hungry and long for your cooking. Greet him at the end of the day like you haven't seen him for a week, it will spark back that time when he has less on his mind and more of you to think about.

Ha!ha!ha! How funny! Your husband must be really loaded with so many things in his mind! How funny really! Oh my friend, you must understand your husband. Don't be too childish! You are no longer in the courtship stage. Instead of feeling bad you should rather be more understanding. If you will give him silent treatment... you will be adding more thoughts in his mind and chances are he will even become more forgetful. Ha!ha!ha! I can't help laughing really. It is like a scene in a movie or TV sitcom. But seriously, I encourage you to give your husband some more of your understanding.

My husband and I work in the same building (different departments) so we ride to work together. My job requires me to do a lot of traveling (around the city) while his does not; however, we always eat lunch together no matter what I'm doing. There have been times when I had to go out and make a run, I'd look for the car and it would be gone!! The first time it happened I honestly thought someone stole it so I called my husband frantic and he told me he was across the street at the gas station buying some gum and he didn't think he had to tell me that. I was relieved but upset at the same time because why couldn't he just tell me he had to go to the store? I had to wait until I calmed down because approaching him in anger does not work at all, so when I did calm down I explained to him that he should always tell me when he's leaving, even if he's just going across the street. I wish I could say it worked the first time I told him but after about three times (and a lot of attitude from me) he got the point!