Do girls stare at guys too?
By rajeshfgh
@rajeshfgh (1629)
India
September 11, 2008 1:33pm CST
Hi friends, I know that guys usually stare at girls if they find them attractive or for any other reason. I know it because I myself do it sometimes 
. But, I was just wondering if girls also stare at guys. If yes, why and in which cases?
Come on girls be a sport, it's just a discussion....
. But, I was just wondering if girls also stare at guys. If yes, why and in which cases?
Come on girls be a sport, it's just a discussion....2 people like this
8 responses
@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
hahaha! I like this discussion my friend. Yep. Girls also stare at guys and a lot of times its the girls who are really really obvious when they like someone. teehee! 
Usually if I see a good looking guy, I try to get in some stolen glances and try not to be obvious. Haha!
Usually if I see a good looking guy, I try to get in some stolen glances and try not to be obvious. Haha!@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
12 Sep 08
Hi rosedust, I think that gals have mastered the art of staring without anyone noticing them because when a guy stares at some gal it is very obvious to everybody around, but I have never seen a gal staring at any guy. If what you say is true, then God really must have given you some extra power to send in those staring glances without anybody around noticing it. 
@rosedust82 (2066)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Yeah... I guess what a lot of girls do is they look away when the guy starts looking or one of their friends happens to look their way. But I know girls have their own ways of looking innocent. Ha!@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
17 Sep 08
I bet! God surely has given gals something extra which is seriously lacking in guys. Guys make it look so obvious.
@iamnes (324)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
yes i think we girls do. my friends and i would do that at times when we are in a mall or in a public vehicle. personally, if i find someone attractive in class or in a public vehicle, i would stare at him in an unnoticeable way and i would wish that he's doing the same way to me also when i am not looking at him.
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
27 Sep 08
Hey, that's a revelation as I never seem to see any girl staring at any guy. It's only the guys who pop out their eyes and make it so obvious to everybody around. I guess, girls have some God-gifted talent of staring at someone without anybody around noticing it.
@youless (114117)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Sep 08
Frankly, when I see handsome men on the street, I will look at them but I won't stare at them because it's not polite. Attractive people always get attention in public:)
I love China
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
12 Sep 08
Hi, looking is perfectly okay, but is it like if you see someone really attractive that you are kinda drawn to him and you keep looking at him for a long time. This is common for guys to do and so I started this discussion to know the feminine point of view.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Well, of course. Girls stare at guys too. I am a type of girl that like to judge a guy that I see. Girls usually stare at a guy if they're cute. Some stares at the guy coz they noticed something, might be a good or bad impression. Girls are like men when it comes to staring. Admit it or not, some girls fantasize the guy/s they think that are hot or cool. I do that when I was in college. Not anymore, I am totally taken!!! hahaha
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
12 Sep 08
Hi, I didn't know that girls also do that as I have never seen a girl stare at a guy. It would only be a glance or two but not more than that. As for the fantasizing part I think it is done by both the sides. That's a very frank confession. Happy mylotting
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
12 Sep 08
You're right that you can't make it obvious to the other person that you're staring. The guys, though, don't care and continue staring, but for the girls I am not so sure as I have never seen a girl staring at some guy. Girls are always like princess who are in an air of their own with guys looking in awe at them
@josephzzq (90)
• China
16 Sep 08
yes,i know what you feel,because i am a boy,i always stare at the girls who is attractive.i think it is human's nature,so do the girls.
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
17 Sep 08
Hi joseph, boys surely do it but given that girls also do it, have you seen any girl intently staring at a boy. I have not seen any so I started this discussion as to what special quality have they got to not make staring obvious to anybody.
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
12 Sep 08
Hi cream, surely the guys do it, but what about the girls? Do the girls also stare at guys in the same way?
@ProudMommy22 (705)
• United States
11 Sep 08
Im a girl and i'll tell you if i seen an attractive guy walk by i'll stare at them lol sounds bad but i do cant help it guys and girls are a lot the same in a lot of ways some girls jsut dont like to admit it, and some guys just dont see it that way. But yes girls do it too ive seen many of my friends do it as well as me. Why being if there hot to you your going to stare if there cute a girl will stare. I dunno about stareing a hole threw someone over that i dont go that far with it but i'll look.
@rajeshfgh (1629)
• India
12 Sep 08
Why do you say that you sound bad? Is it only the guys have the right to stare? I never felt any distinction between guys and gals and I started this discussion to confirm my feelings. I think I am right. But, guys make it seem very obvious with their staring but gals do it somewhat secretly, is it not?
