are you the one who makes the first move?

Philippines
October 6, 2008 8:34am CST
ok i you saw a very hot person and you are attracted to him or her. what will you do? just stare at that person until they disappear in your sight... talk to that person. what will you do then? do you have the guts to do the first move? well you ask me i always do the first move even if i'm the girl. i just talk to that person, like pretend that i was lost and ask for directions or if he can guide me. or ask what time is it... and if i am commuting on a public vehicles then i saw a cute guy i always sit next to him. and i pretend that i am sleeping so i can rest my head on his shoulders... well i know it's the oldest thing to get someone's attention but hae... it works. i always end up dating the guy...
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4 responses
@gtdonna (1738)
7 Oct 08
I normally smile and say hi and ask how they are doing. Sometimes I say if you wait for someone to make the first move, you will be waiting forever. SO nothing ventured, nothing gain ...thus I would rather make the first move and see if the perosn is interested in me as well or not
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
that's the spirit! your talking like an adult... thanks for the reply darling!
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
6 Oct 08
U are quite aggressive for a gal ah ^_^ hehe =D I dun usually take the 1st move.. If i see any hot gals or pretty gals, i will just look at them occasionally, but never stare at them.. hehe ^_^ As i dun wanna scared them off, and i won't be able to see them anymore.. haha =D And if possible, i will try to make a smile at them b4 i were to alight from bus or trains, but i won't really wait for their response too.. lol
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
well i need to be one because there are some cute guys that is like you scared to do the first move. i'm doing some favor. just don't look at it as aggressive or something. just see it as an opportunity to guys like you. i mean come on if you will see a hot girl on a train or a bus and then see will sit beside you and talk it's a good thing. that means only thing she must have like you or she is comfortable being with you. somehow...lol
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@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
6 Oct 08
I was the first one to approach my girl friend when we met. We did work together but we really didn't talk to each other much. When our mutual friend introduced us, I guess I was the one to suggest the idea of us getting involved first.
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
i'm not the type of girl who is aggressive but i give out signs though. that's what girls ought to do. we should give out signs and then guys make the first move.
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
well sometimes guys don't know how to interpret the signs. sorry! but i hope it will be effective to you. i'm sure you ended up dated them by using this right? most of them?